Moofahsa
Senior Don Juan
Bout two months ago I got a little toasted at a friends house, shacked up with this girl...left and went along with my business. Never knew anything other than her first name. She lived over 2 hours away and was here for a family event and it was understood it was what it was.
Flash forward to now and I get this weird phone call from a girl saying to call her at this number on my voicemail. I didn't recognize the voice and she actually had to explain to me who she was. I got the "I am pregnet...*CRY* *CRY*" Needless to say I drove 2 hours to "make sure" since I learned from her friend she already has a kid and is on welfare...at 19...and her friend told me she is a money grubber hardcore. (My family is very well off)
I took a home preg test with me and ask her take it, sure enough it was positive. We had a short conversation, I said I'd pay for an abortion if she was okay with that and she said "no". Hm...
I told her I have no problem paying for a paternity test while she was still pregent (quoted at $900) and she said she have to look into it...and ended up tossing the idea because the complications that can happen...which I understand.
Basically I'm pulling my hair out here, she is not someone I want to have a kid with.
Anything I can do here? Or am I just gunna have to man up and wait the next 7 months in agony and shame my family?
Flash forward to now and I get this weird phone call from a girl saying to call her at this number on my voicemail. I didn't recognize the voice and she actually had to explain to me who she was. I got the "I am pregnet...*CRY* *CRY*" Needless to say I drove 2 hours to "make sure" since I learned from her friend she already has a kid and is on welfare...at 19...and her friend told me she is a money grubber hardcore. (My family is very well off)
I took a home preg test with me and ask her take it, sure enough it was positive. We had a short conversation, I said I'd pay for an abortion if she was okay with that and she said "no". Hm...
I told her I have no problem paying for a paternity test while she was still pregent (quoted at $900) and she said she have to look into it...and ended up tossing the idea because the complications that can happen...which I understand.
Basically I'm pulling my hair out here, she is not someone I want to have a kid with.
Anything I can do here? Or am I just gunna have to man up and wait the next 7 months in agony and shame my family?