Small words BIG DIFFERENCE

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UnexpectedTeen

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I think that small words really make a lot of difference. Greetings like: "Hi" and "hello" ; "Bye" and "byebye"
i rarely hear guys greet with Hello or ByeBye. I hear those usually as replies from girls.
In Short, girls usually say "Hello", "ByeBye"
Guys usually say "hi", "bye"
Simple and sweet.

During conversation with girls(bros included), making crappy sounds like "ehm","er", etc, is very annoying and shows uncertainty. if you have nothing to say, shut ur gap, dont say anything. Nothing is Better than BadThings.

As we all know, we are princes, we are dashing; charming; intelligent; humourous and suave. WE should put ourselves in control of the conversation. how? Start with "I"

Below are examples which will illustrate what i mean:

1)Mary, you are so smart, you got an A+ for your maths!
2)I Think you're pretty smart, Mary. You've got an A+!

1)Wow, mary, the earrings you're wearing are so beautiful.
Can i take a look?
2)I like your/Mary's earrings are very beautiful.
They look good on you/Mary.

1)Do you wanna go Bowling this evening?
2)I Suggest that we go Bowling this evening, What do you think?

1)Mary, you are so rude towards me
2)I Don't like you being so rude towards me. Mary?

1)May i Borrow your crayons ,Mary?
2)I would like to borrow your/Mary's crayon.

1)happy birthday, Mary! Do you like the present?
2)I wish you happy birthday, Mary. I hope you'd like the present.

Well, after so many examples, i think you know what i am talking about: 2 is better than 1. Using: i think, i hope, i suggest, i etc. puts you in "control" The opinons are yours truely and it is very precious as it tells people your views, either you agree with them or not, you like it or not. Putting an "I" in front changes your statement to a sentence. in which the reciver cannot reply to with a simple yes/no answer.

while in a conversation, starting with a "I" statement or 2 then ask a question which directs the convo back to her. That simple, and you will be the best conversationist she would ever get.

If girl asks you a question and you dont know the answer...
babe: hey charming, do you know how to solve this trigo question where sinX = 2 bla bla bla

1) I dont know.
2) I think you should ask tim about this. He is very good at trigo.

In adding to these with some kino and you're the king.
RAther than:
Can i kiss you?

just:

I think your hair is very smooth
[strokes hair]
[hold eye contact]
[move in till ur noses touch]
kiss


And last of all, i would like to end by saying:
You're the man, go out and do your stuff!
 

fragmentor

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Erm.... ok....

I think this a bit of overanalysation here. If you're a newbie, don't worry about this.
 

RKS

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i know what your talking about tho

when i was a blowed out AFC
this chick was like
where do you wanna eat
and i wa slike thinking what she would like, then i said , i dont know

( putting her in control) badd

so yeah i know what you mean

rks
 

Mikelo2k

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I beleive this post was very informative :) I thank you for taking your time to write this, makes perfect sense to me ;D
 

Oxide

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i suggest we go bowling? BAH,.

this is what i said

"im going bowling tommorrow, i want u to come with". worked. but i deleted her phone number :(
 

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If this post was organized better, I would even recommend this to the bible! To be honest, I haven't ever seen this covered, and I liked it. I suggest you PM me so we can organize it more clearly and efficiently so we can put it in the bible. :)

Good job!
 

USSOCOM

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Speech and literacy is very important in showing confidence and intelligence. There should be a section on this in the bible.
 

UnexpectedTeen

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Which is better?
1) would you like to join me in the library to study for this friday's exams?

or

2) I am going to the library to study for this friday's exams. I want you to be around to entertain me.

period.
:D
 

UnexpectedTeen

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WUWT it seems that your pm inbox is full. i tried to pm you a few times alreadly. i really wanted to be of some help with my post so if WUWT reads my post, could you reply to discuss how to organize this better?

Thankz
:)
 
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