Don Corleone
Don Juan
Heres a little tip for all you budding DJ's out there. Now, although confidence is a way of life and not an attitude, this is a way of moving confidently, just in case it doesn't come naturally to you.
SLOW DOWN....
Now this might seem a little odd to you, but watch any alpha male walk someplace...Do you notice anything? They are always walking SLOWLY, every move is calculated, and there head's are always up checking out everything that is going on.
Their hands arent in their pockets, they arent looking at the floor, they arent avoiding eye contact with everyone...They know they are the center of attention.
When people ask you a question, every now and then just wait like 8 seconds to reply. look around and act like you arent going to answer. Then just reply like nothing happened.
Slowing your movements down is a much harder task then you might think. We, in todays society are very busy people. Try to practice moving slowly and surely.
I preach this in all of my posts, work out. A lot of guys are simply sore from working out, and it is uncomfortable to move fast. Go work out your legs and back, and try to move around fast....you just cant.
In my opinion the way you move is one of the biggest signs of confidence. Open your body language up, and dont be in such a damn hurry, because if you walk fast and with your head down all the time you might be missing some wonderful opportunities to approach.
Good luck to you, and hit the gym every day!
SLOW DOWN....
Now this might seem a little odd to you, but watch any alpha male walk someplace...Do you notice anything? They are always walking SLOWLY, every move is calculated, and there head's are always up checking out everything that is going on.
Their hands arent in their pockets, they arent looking at the floor, they arent avoiding eye contact with everyone...They know they are the center of attention.
When people ask you a question, every now and then just wait like 8 seconds to reply. look around and act like you arent going to answer. Then just reply like nothing happened.
Slowing your movements down is a much harder task then you might think. We, in todays society are very busy people. Try to practice moving slowly and surely.
I preach this in all of my posts, work out. A lot of guys are simply sore from working out, and it is uncomfortable to move fast. Go work out your legs and back, and try to move around fast....you just cant.
In my opinion the way you move is one of the biggest signs of confidence. Open your body language up, and dont be in such a damn hurry, because if you walk fast and with your head down all the time you might be missing some wonderful opportunities to approach.
Good luck to you, and hit the gym every day!
