The Canadian Moose
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Don't be critical of my overthinking on this one!
Essentially, a little about me; I broke up with my ex 1.5 years ago and ever since have been quite a major player, just trying to have fun being single and young. I'm confident and I don't normally need to seek advice, and am usually on the giving end of advice for such situations. However, I've come to realize that when one actually cares and wants something bad, they tend to lose all their game!
ANYWAYS, to the story:
I saw the girl of my dreams at this wedding this past week, whom I locked eyes with many times. I asked the grooms sister (my cousin) to introduce me to the brides sister, however, no good opportunities came to fruition. I normally don't do such things, but I wasn't about to drop it and not take action, so I went ahead and FB messaged her. She responded positively at first, not too friendly or flirty at all, but small talk was made, however, only 8 messages have been exchanged so far, hers being one liners, unflirty. My cousin advised me that she's one to play 'the game' and enjoys playing hard to get, which makes sense since she's a great catch and very sought after. I can play the game, to a point, but as we all know, that game gets staler than bread left out for a few days pretty quick. There's been 24 hours between the past 3 texts, me being the last one to send one and she still hasn't read this past one, which was mere small talk. I intend on asking her out within the next 2 messages but wonder if being straight up, or continue playing the game would be the correct route, or whether or not she's interested. Pretty tough to tell. Lets be real, every girl has their phone on them as if it's their third breast, they see the messages coming in, but she chose to answer the text 24 hours later, twice, even though it's obvious she saw it. Another sidenote: she had asked my cousin about who I was once or twice at the wedding.
Thoughts?
Essentially, a little about me; I broke up with my ex 1.5 years ago and ever since have been quite a major player, just trying to have fun being single and young. I'm confident and I don't normally need to seek advice, and am usually on the giving end of advice for such situations. However, I've come to realize that when one actually cares and wants something bad, they tend to lose all their game!
ANYWAYS, to the story:
I saw the girl of my dreams at this wedding this past week, whom I locked eyes with many times. I asked the grooms sister (my cousin) to introduce me to the brides sister, however, no good opportunities came to fruition. I normally don't do such things, but I wasn't about to drop it and not take action, so I went ahead and FB messaged her. She responded positively at first, not too friendly or flirty at all, but small talk was made, however, only 8 messages have been exchanged so far, hers being one liners, unflirty. My cousin advised me that she's one to play 'the game' and enjoys playing hard to get, which makes sense since she's a great catch and very sought after. I can play the game, to a point, but as we all know, that game gets staler than bread left out for a few days pretty quick. There's been 24 hours between the past 3 texts, me being the last one to send one and she still hasn't read this past one, which was mere small talk. I intend on asking her out within the next 2 messages but wonder if being straight up, or continue playing the game would be the correct route, or whether or not she's interested. Pretty tough to tell. Lets be real, every girl has their phone on them as if it's their third breast, they see the messages coming in, but she chose to answer the text 24 hours later, twice, even though it's obvious she saw it. Another sidenote: she had asked my cousin about who I was once or twice at the wedding.
Thoughts?
