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[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

(Yes, I'm a newbie or a n00b or whatever people here say...dont flame thx) I have a question relating to meeting chicks. I'm 16, attractive enough to not be considered unattractive, etc bla bla bla, but my capacity for meeting chicks at school is limited since in all seven of my classes TOTAL, there are about 4-5 decent chicks, due to the program I'm in at school, IB/MSE (to cut the official crap: it's uber-demanding). my MSE classes have pretty much nobody, and my IB classes are full of other IB/MSE people and a few IB people (the program with a few hot chicks)...but pretty much all of the MSE people are self-proclaimed nerds, calculator bums, etc, and male. I feigned pretty much no interest last year, and didn't get any chicks at all (but I was also pretty ugly and had no confidence, so that may have factored in too). I don't want to lack any female friends like I did last year, so I talked to a few a little before coming here, but no sparks flew or anything. The only hour I have with tons of chicks is lunch, and at lunch I sit at a table with semi-nerds, a few days at school have gone by so that's pretty much become routine, though if I can think of a way to change it it sounds good to me. Any ideas?

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

No reply-ing?

 

[K56Connect]

Guess what you need to read.

C'mon, guess.

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

Yeah but isn't that about skills as opposed to FINDING chicks? I'm readin sections of it as I speak but I noticed a glaring flaw in my pimping plan right away.

 

[Julian]

Awww man you need some help.

You sit with nerds? Sh1t man, you are now perceived as one of the people you sit with. Unfortunatly this is going to be hard to overcome.

Ever seen the movie "The new guy"? That what you need to do LOL.

I suggest a hardcore makeover, if you feel good about yourself and your looks your confidence and pimp level will rize.

Go get a new wardrobe, pimp gear. Get a haircut, a nice one. Your in florida so you SHOULD, hell you BETTER have a good tan.

Stop sitting with those blasted nerds. Dissaccociate with them, sit by yourself if you have to. As long as you dont look like a miserable loner it will work out good. If you sit by yourself, eating confidently (how do you do that? lol) sitting up straight people will notice you. You will be seen as a lone wolf, and it will peak peoples interests.

So if your looking pimped out sitting by yourself girls will definetly be intrigued, hell, you may even be approached.

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

Lol sounds good but before I joined the nerds my lone wolf approach didnt work much, but I had way worse acne, crappy clothes and no tan then so that may have got in the way. It's not as bad as it seems though, my school is about 30% nerds, so I doubt I stick out as one much. I've had 3 days of school, so is it too late (socially) to switch, assuming I can conjure a BS excuse to sit with one or two of the people I knwo in the more popular group?

 

[es_mer8]

I've had 3 days of school, so is it too late (socially) to switch, assuming I can conjure a BS excuse to sit with one or two of the people I knwo in the more popular group?

If you know them, its never too late. The farther you go into the year, the harder it is. So next time, go sit with them. Avoid the nerds. Thats like an AA member sitting with a bunch of alcoholics.

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

Crap, failed again...I gotta take longer to get to the cafateria so it doesn't seem so awkward to walk by the nerd table and ask matt or someone if he wants to work on hw at lunch

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Ok, just grab your balls

Walk up to the HOTTEST chicks sitting in a group at the cafeteria

Introduce yourself and chat em up...

Be sure to read the bible too


This is not to be attempted if you still have gay clothes, and no tan, and no social skills cuz you haven't learned from the bible.


If you have sports, join sports and make non-nerd guy friends.

If you don't have sports... just network.

You are a DJ you don't need an excuse for anythin... be a man and go for what you want

 

[eba]

Why do you guys call it 'the bible'? It's actually called 'The Don Juan book'. Oh well...

 

[PiHiPlaya]

^ ^ ^ ^ ^

Is that a joke

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

I don't have time for sports since I'm in a demanding school and play bass, take tae kwon do, go to youth group, and have only fridays and weekends open, which, if anything like middle school, have no sports practices. I've upgraded my clothes, got a tan (since I was in hawaii), and I've got no clue what sort of social skills i have. I've skimmed the bible. I actually personally know a couple of the uber-hot chicks but since they know my last year's-entity more that's kind of a bad thing, since I've upgraded a lot over the summer. But that sounds like a good idea, now how to approach a group of chicks...

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

Not doing too good, only talked to 1 or 2 chicks briefly lately...I gotta find a socially non-stupid excuse to switch tables.

 

[Cloud-uk]

Ok, I'm going to help you out because the longer you leave it the more likely you wont do it. Work out something you need help with, be it work, what something means, ****- what a girl's favorite movie is! Just say, "me and a m8 were having this arguement, and I want to get a girl's perspective, and you seem like a fairly turned on chick", if you really want to be a man (perish at ze thought!) you could also get ina bit of flirting in there (always helps) and talk about something (dare I say it ) racey? "Hey *girl*, me and my a girl i know were having this debate -sits down- what's better, foreplay or sex?".

Not to spoon feed you the whole way, but it'd be better if you had talked to this girl before. If she is taken back by it, or giggles, just say "well look who's the mature one". Yadda yadda yadda you talk for a bit, and I'm sure everyone on the table will get involved- its a ded cert. Then, if you're ona table of girls (who will all go for foreplay) call some guys over (who will probably go for sex).

You cant get into a social group? make a social group around you.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Why do you need an excuse? You are a DJ you do what you want without an excuse.

Just sit down... start grinnin and talk to the girls, they WILL start blushing! I Assure you they will


Stop skimming the bible, and take a day to read the entire thing.

That's great you have a full schedule, this will make you a rarity... giving you value (Mad Props to Smooth )

 

[Cloud-uk]

^^^^I think that'll make him look like some kind of freak...

Seriously, I dont think sitting at the table and grinning like a wanker at people will get you *****- especially if the school has this kid down as a nerd. And its all well and good telling him to grab his balls and take what he wants, but I feel this guy is still an AFC, and thats kinda like telling him to run before he can walk. He has to be told how to get what he wants befor ehe can grab his balls and get it.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

well do you think i was suggesting just grinning at girls?

you gotta chat em up!

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

Yeah, I don't want to go to the chicks table and make a complete ass of myself and end up regretting it the rest of the school year, at least until I can get some better friends, hence a better reputation etc. All of my classes are with the nerd people, since we all have the same calculus, physics, etc and the schedules only work 1 way, so we're all together.

But the whole "you don't need an excuse" thing sorta hit me on the head, duh...but first I must drop this whole damn AFC thing.

The full schedule gives value I suppose, but very little of it is social activity, there are few youths in my tae kwon do class. The only social one is youth group.

By excuse, I meant a reasonable cause, showing up one day at a more popular group's table with people I know but am not that much of friends with would merit a 'why' and...****, I'm thinking about this too much. I'll leave it at here for now, I gotta go.