MidnightCity said:
i can read and understand better than most.
Clearly that isnt the case.
you made an implication when you said "many women cut a guy off when she finds out he is getting laid elsewhere" which is absolutely not true unless she knows it for a FACT. she can suspect all she wants but unless you flat out tell her she will find a way to rationalize it.
What implication? Just because you stupidly want to assign a different meaning to something I said, does not mean thats what I said. I said many women cut off dudes when they find out about other women. I have seen this happen, and I have had women get iffy about me even when they just assumed I had other women on the side.
Just because you think a girl needs to know this for a fact before she bails does not make it so. There are a number of women out there that will make logical conclusions based on how a guy behaves and add everything up. It doesnt take a psychologist to know when the person you are dating is seeing other people. There are women out there who are smart to avoid potential triangle drama or the increased risk of STDs with a guy who sleeps around.
There are both men and women who arent comfortable with partners who sleep around. Whats so hard to understand about that?
and i already stated that women can tell by your behavior, why are you saying im wrong and then re-iterating what i said? i mean really....
Again you fail to understand my post correctly. You began your previous post with a condescending question, and therefore I corrected your incorrect assumptions about what I had originally said. I say what I mean. I dont need you to add meaning to it just because youre trying to puff your chest on an internet forum.
i now see why some ppl complain so much about "keyboard jockeys" you dont have a clue what you're talking from experience other than what you read and yet you still dont get it
Some women rationalize sleeping with a guy whos promiscuous, while others just find someone who wont sleep around as much. That is the fact I have seen and experienced all my life. Other guys will tell you the same. Stop being daft and assuming every woman is exactly the same.
No, plenty of women do not enjoy dating men who give their attention to other women. Experienced guys will tell you that here and in the real world. So the only guy without a clue here is you. Youre actually just about keyboard jockey regurgitating this idea that all women want a man who sleeps around. Thats the male fantasy of a harem projected onto what females might want.
Trust me, many women dont want that. And its smart if they dont wanna deal with that. It generally comes with added STD risk, and the potential for a good bit of drama. Some chicks settle for sharing, and some dont. Thats the reality. Its not a hard truth to wrap your mind around.
