Went into the gym today, walked in and, "wooo nice" a chick I had never seen before, totally hot and in very skimpy clothes.
Said to myself, I'm gonna talk to her today, just as I was thinking
that, she left and went to a locker, I thought "f%7k this, im gonna do this" and went out and said "So you worn out now? Your not gonna drop dead in this heat are you?" she goes "nah, ive only just started im just getting a drink".
I then was gonna go for a swim and there was tons of people in the pool (real hot weather) and I thought, "hey im not gonna let it end there" so I went back in, and talked to her a bit, said I was gonna go in the pool but it was too packed (partly true, wanted to talk to her too
Asked her how long shed been going to the gym, told me she just started and just moved down here, she is living with her grandma, asked her what she thought of the town etc. seemed pretty open to talking to me. Asked if she was growing big muscles and felt her arm (gym kino)
A few minutes later she had finished and walked out and smiled and said seeya, I thought "hey im not gonna let her just go" and went out and said, "hey do you reakon they'd mind if i went skinny dipping" and she laughs and goes "yeah youll scare everyone off" and i said "but i know you wouldnt be able to concentrate because you'd be too busy perving on me" she laughs and said 'yeah' or something, asked her if she had found
any good places to hang out in this town and introduced myself.
Shook her hand and she says "Wow, you have a nice strong handshake" then I said "hey, wanna get together tonight" (maybe not the best wording i know, but so what) she goes, "I can't tonight, i have to go have tea with my grandma" (haha sounds a bit fake?) and I have a boyfriend in **** (where she moved from), but I'll definately go out with you somewhere another time just as long as you know where we stand.
Dunno if she was making up the bf, but she still said she would go somewhere with me, might have just been a copout and kishe was hoping she wouldnt see me again. But she seemed pretty open to me and happy that I did ask.
Im thinking that if we do go out somewhere theres 2 ways I can go about things.
1. Advance and pretend she didnt say she had a boyfriend, c&f, kino etc. she where it goes and if she says something ill just be like "well im not gonna apologize for my behaviour"
2. Go out with her, use her as social proof and chat up other chicks and if she complains say, "well you've got a bf, why should you care".
I'm thinking more along the lines of number 1, beacuse I'm not
experienced in using social proof and don't know where to start.
Anyway, just looking for others input and advice.
I feel pretty good now that I went for it, if I didn't i would be real
pissed off and kicking myself now. Hmm I just have to remember that and realize that next time I hesitate.
-Ben
Said to myself, I'm gonna talk to her today, just as I was thinking
that, she left and went to a locker, I thought "f%7k this, im gonna do this" and went out and said "So you worn out now? Your not gonna drop dead in this heat are you?" she goes "nah, ive only just started im just getting a drink".
I then was gonna go for a swim and there was tons of people in the pool (real hot weather) and I thought, "hey im not gonna let it end there" so I went back in, and talked to her a bit, said I was gonna go in the pool but it was too packed (partly true, wanted to talk to her too
Asked her how long shed been going to the gym, told me she just started and just moved down here, she is living with her grandma, asked her what she thought of the town etc. seemed pretty open to talking to me. Asked if she was growing big muscles and felt her arm (gym kino)
A few minutes later she had finished and walked out and smiled and said seeya, I thought "hey im not gonna let her just go" and went out and said, "hey do you reakon they'd mind if i went skinny dipping" and she laughs and goes "yeah youll scare everyone off" and i said "but i know you wouldnt be able to concentrate because you'd be too busy perving on me" she laughs and said 'yeah' or something, asked her if she had found
any good places to hang out in this town and introduced myself.
Shook her hand and she says "Wow, you have a nice strong handshake" then I said "hey, wanna get together tonight" (maybe not the best wording i know, but so what) she goes, "I can't tonight, i have to go have tea with my grandma" (haha sounds a bit fake?) and I have a boyfriend in **** (where she moved from), but I'll definately go out with you somewhere another time just as long as you know where we stand.
Dunno if she was making up the bf, but she still said she would go somewhere with me, might have just been a copout and kishe was hoping she wouldnt see me again. But she seemed pretty open to me and happy that I did ask.
Im thinking that if we do go out somewhere theres 2 ways I can go about things.
1. Advance and pretend she didnt say she had a boyfriend, c&f, kino etc. she where it goes and if she says something ill just be like "well im not gonna apologize for my behaviour"
2. Go out with her, use her as social proof and chat up other chicks and if she complains say, "well you've got a bf, why should you care".
I'm thinking more along the lines of number 1, beacuse I'm not
experienced in using social proof and don't know where to start.
Anyway, just looking for others input and advice.
I feel pretty good now that I went for it, if I didn't i would be real
pissed off and kicking myself now. Hmm I just have to remember that and realize that next time I hesitate.
-Ben
