Situational Awareness

RBK

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Thought I'd post some field research that's happened to me lately.

Met this girl at a bar a month or so ago. She comes up to me and says "hey we matched on Tinder like a year ago or so, I didn't think you were a real person!" bla bla.. We talk for a bit, have some shots and I end up banging her back at her house which is like two blocks from the main drag in town. End up passing out and heading out at 6am that Morning.

We exchange texts here and there and I try to set something up a couple weeks after the initial meeting on a Saturday night. Messages me the night before (Friday) saying she is excited to see me.. ok. Texts me that morning she got her period. I say OK, I'll be downtown if you want to come out and grab a drink cool if not no big deal. I end up hanging with friends and having a fun night. I see this as she made no suggestions for another reschedule or meeting so I do not plan to text her first.

Another couple weeks go by and poof a text at 10:00pm last Wednesday, "hey I was thinking about you are you free this weekend?" we exchange some sexual banter back and forth for awhile (this girl is super sexual, submissive and horny but I know she's hooking up with a bunchof other dudes probably, they all are)... she's hot.. my type 5'1 blonde 110lbs. 27 years old. Anywayyy.. she asks if I can hang Saturday night... I can't so suggest Sunday she said OK.

Last Saturday I text her to confirm Sundays plans... No response. I find this super disrespectful. I see on Snapchat she posts a story on a boat a couple hours before my text. OK... **** off then something better came along.

I get a text yesterday at noon "omg so sorry had such terrible service in Vermont. :(" I just looked at it and didn't respond. I'm not dumb. She continues to check all my socials for the day since shes apparently back from her little trip.

Bros, these women go after the best option at the time. She clearly was invited away for the 4th of July holiday at someone's lakehouse. I totally get that, go have fun but to not respond to my text at all? I find this unacceptable. You could just say stuff came out, went out of town ANYTHING else but women avoid any confrontation like the plague. They are weak. Have some respect for yourself kings. I am talking to 4-5 other women right now so it's not a big deal but when your time isn't valued you need to respect yourself out there.
 
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Thanks for the write-up. Helps me to remain indifferent when I'm dating again.
 
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DEEZEDBRAH

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My mate got asked out by a girl who later announced she's pregnant. Another announced engagement. This is female nature in 2022. Pump and dump. Not play house.
 
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