sits next to, not across from

[ozzfest]

need expert opinions...

take a woman out to lunch...we are seated at a square table that seats 4 (1 chair on each side)...i sit down 1st...she sits next to me rather than across from me...

one 1 hand i think its good cuz she is sitting closer to me...on the other hand its bad cuz rather than sitting right across from her and forcing her to look at me she has the opportunity to look around and not necessarily look me in the eye when we speak.

any advice is appreciated

 

[iqqi]

read Tamales advice where she mentioned what her oneitis did in that position...

Can't remember what it was called, but it was a thread she started aimed at everyone, so do a search under her name...

 

[aBAzLLnA]

thinking wayyy too much bro........

personally wherever the **** she decides to sit, i still control her, i still keep her interest and i still own her.

k.i.s.s = keep it simple stupid

hope this helps

~ivan

 

[Microphone Fiend]

yea you're overanalysing. If you think she likes you. Try something on her, if you don't think she likes yo but you aren't sure... Try something on her. Come back and tell us what happens.
You can't base whether she likes you on where she sits because some people are used to being close to others and do it sub-conciously.

 

[Oxide]

across, easier to eat. next to if u are just sitting somewhere, so u can pull kino

 

[tamales]

RRRRR.. I don't really recall posting a thread on this. Yep, I posted some fkkd up stuff when I was in the heat of my onitus. But in any case, sit across from her if it's the first date. ANd make lots of eye contact. But if she sits next to you then all the better, shows she is comfortable. Good luck. It's just lunch man. No worry and have fun.

 

[iqqi]

-Touch- Touch is very important. When at a bar, my DJ would put his hand between my legs. We would be on stools and very close to one another and he would of very slowly just sort of massage my p****. We would be talking and he would be talking to other people sometimes women or friends and then suddenly, lean in and catch me by surprise, kiss my neck or lick ever so slightly and ask me in my ear, whispering,' do you like that". WHile at the same time giving me a very intense stare. He was always touching me.

tamales said it was cool to share this, hope it helps

 

[lerxst]

This is a more intimate seating arrangement, as the above post demonstrates the possiblities. It is good, because there is no barrier of the table, and good for kino. It implies that the two of you are lovers, or she sees you as one. Do the things that lovers do, cause as you do them you will make her feel as if the two of you are already lovers. And it is difficult to do what is mentioned in the above post from across the table. Really, this is the ideal seating arrangement you want to have with a girl you are interested in. Don't go for the seating across from her now, as this distances the two of you from each other and will create a barrier between you and her. This way it doesn't seem like a "Formal Date/Interview" type of thing and takes the pressure off. As for maintaining eye contact, simply turn your head towards hers, or, rotate your upper body towards her (this will make resting an arm around her a more natural move). Either way you are already in great shape as long as you pace and lead her interest levels.

 

[Dee-Zy]

you worry too much - Read my sig.

If she sits besides you, you can KINO muuuuch more and better.

Plus if she didn't like you she wouldn't get ANYWHERE close of you now - would she?

 

[MDgood]

You're thinking too much... dangerous thing to do.

At a table that seats four people, one on each side, she has a 67% chance of sitting next to you. Odds are in your favor even if she hates you.