Closed the deal last night with a cute single mom. I think I'll be able to keep her as a steady plate if all goes to plan. The last single mom plate I had told me I would never meet her kid and we would just be going out, having fun and of course fvcking. For me that's the ideal situation and will be my goal with this new one. I'm curious about y'alls take on single mom plates
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oneboy21
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For some guys they are easy.
For some they are baggage. Don't ever date them, Just have fun with them.
For some they are baggage. Don't ever date them, Just have fun with them.
Greasy Pig
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I nailed a single mum last weekend - the filthiest little cvm junkie I've ever been with, truly uninhibited - but I'm not going to see her more than once a week and limit our contact to merely organising to fvck.
I'm not ready for kids and I'm not going to play daddy for someone else's.
I think single mums are fun but I'm sure they're always looking for a new dad for their kids.
Another tip: ALWAYS rubber up. No risks.
I'm not ready for kids and I'm not going to play daddy for someone else's.
I think single mums are fun but I'm sure they're always looking for a new dad for their kids.
Another tip: ALWAYS rubber up. No risks.
backbreaker
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the thign about single mom's is that they are low hanging fruit. dudes will get one and think they are hot **** when in realty she is making the game eaiser for you beucase of her baggage.
with that said, single mom's are a great "starter plate" to get your confidence going. but if i have another option i will take a non mommy plate 9 out of 10 times.
with that said, single mom's are a great "starter plate" to get your confidence going. but if i have another option i will take a non mommy plate 9 out of 10 times.
timmylivingalie
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I normaly run like an olympic sprinter if they got kids. Way too much drama.
timmylivingalie
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Exactly.Greasy Pig said:
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Is it me or is just about every woman over 30 nowadays have at least 1 kid? I don't even recall the last one I've met without kids. I kinda accept it as a fact of dating over 30 now.
Most of em will somehow sneak some kinda way for you to "bump" into their kids no matter how much they say they keep their dating lives seperate or not. I take that as a compliment meaning they think enough of me to do that. But is still offputting. Rarely have I seen a woman that keeps ab absolute seperation from the men she dates and her children.
Most of em will somehow sneak some kinda way for you to "bump" into their kids no matter how much they say they keep their dating lives seperate or not. I take that as a compliment meaning they think enough of me to do that. But is still offputting. Rarely have I seen a woman that keeps ab absolute seperation from the men she dates and her children.
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This thread reminds of one of the dumbest things I ever did. I was dating this real hot chic when I was in my early 20's but she had a couple of kids and we dated for a couple months and she dated me away from the kids I had zero contact with them. One night we were driving down the road and out of the blue she looks at me and asks me "are you sure it dont bother you that I have kids?"I responded well it complicates things. The next day she dumped me.
Greasy Pig
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^^, that's the card you don't pull until you want to end it. Lol.
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I kicked myself for years after that.
slitherjef
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the last two of the three chicks I have wanted have had kids. More then one. Those two where both under 25, and both have been oneitis. And not only that, worked in same place I do. The most recent one, I work directly with, but she is not single, has a "hubby". On the bright side, I don't think she is attracted to me. We talk and kind of mess with each other and such. Not sure if I can isolate her and not even sure if I want too because I would likely try something which would really cause some awkwardness at work.
Not sure why it is, but I seem to have a knack for going after young moms or falling for younger chicks. No idea why. Is going after younger chicks effed up?
Not sure why it is, but I seem to have a knack for going after young moms or falling for younger chicks. No idea why. Is going after younger chicks effed up?
I know I'm asking a dumb question, but just so I know, why would that be? It would seem to me it conveyed the message you weren't up for commitment, but is there any other rationalization which her little hamster would spin?timmylivingalie said:
SecondHalf
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I've only dated a couple women without kids in the last few years and they were really quite nuts.
I've no issue with single moms as I'm a single dad and don't want to be the "complication".
To this day, the moms I've dated have no desire to replace the father of their children, they're interested in pleasing themselves only. Perhaps it's the type of woman I date.
If you do meet their children, it is a good way to judge the environment and weed out potential skeletons from growing up in a poor environment.
Single moms typically have to go home at night, this can be an advantage. Leaves it light and you free.
SH
I've no issue with single moms as I'm a single dad and don't want to be the "complication".
To this day, the moms I've dated have no desire to replace the father of their children, they're interested in pleasing themselves only. Perhaps it's the type of woman I date.
If you do meet their children, it is a good way to judge the environment and weed out potential skeletons from growing up in a poor environment.
Single moms typically have to go home at night, this can be an advantage. Leaves it light and you free.
SH
Single moms are always at least slightly desperate, because there's a certain percentage of men who will simply not date them, and they know it.
I occasionally like to ham it up with a woman who is desperate, so I'll date 'em on occasion. But once she tries to introduce you to the kids I think it's time to pull the plug, or allow her to pull the plug. Nothing good ever comes from becoming chummy with a single mom's kids.
I occasionally like to ham it up with a woman who is desperate, so I'll date 'em on occasion. But once she tries to introduce you to the kids I think it's time to pull the plug, or allow her to pull the plug. Nothing good ever comes from becoming chummy with a single mom's kids.
the_stig
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I'm in kind of a single mom bind. Started dating one last fall; she's attractive, hour glass figure, smart, good career, thinks the world of me and it shows in her actions. No games or bs. Not looking for a dad but I can't blow off meeting the kid forever. I'm not a bad looking dude but don't have girls knocking down my door or trying to lock me down. Part of me feels like I'm settling, but another half realizes I've got a gf that many guys would crawl naked through barb wire to be with. I don't know what to do.
SecondHalf
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Unless you have kids or this woman makes your ears wiggle, at 28 you should NOT be setteling!
Tons of babes in the right age group that have not given themselves to another.
At that time in my life, wouldn't take that seriously.
SH
Tons of babes in the right age group that have not given themselves to another.
At that time in my life, wouldn't take that seriously.
SH