simplifying all of this

[frivolousz21]

before you flame me like they do on the inmature KBJ don jaun forum.

let me explain that I am in love before I go on with this...infact a little special person is coming unexpectedly. SHUUU!

I am 23 yrs old..Ive had 3 diff women fall in love with me.

wat does being in love mean?
whatever it means..its an emotional or connection bond that takes massive damage to break.

I know what your saying....ive had women in love with me and they did this or that..and split.

not the case.

when you really expierence love..wether you feel it or she does for you.

you will know...its very obvious.


so some tips on this:


1. find a women who wants wat you want.


you want a family, then find one who wants a family...you wanna be a swinger then marry a swinger.


2. find a women with good morals and values...

this goes along way..if she believes in being loyal and faithful..she will try that much harder to maintain the lasting relationship.

3. find a women with high self esteem.

this women..will be able to handle her self and be in MORE CONTROL OF HER EMOTIONS..except the ones you stimulate and she cant help but love you.

4. find a best friend

you cant be with someone for the rest of your life if she isnt your best friend.

5. good luck!

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
before you flame me like they do on the inmature KBJ don jaun forum.

let me explain that I am in love before I go on with this...infact a little special person is coming unexpectedly. SHUUU!

Is your GF pregnant?

My guess is yes hence this post.

 

[WestCoaster]

Ugh, pregnant and married at 23 -- will be divorced at 30.

Hate to say never, but NEVER take advice from a 23-year old who has a kid along the way. He knows next to nothing about life.

Your punctuation tells me you're lacking in education, too. My guess is you haven't worked on that properly.

 

[frivolousz21]

umm...I try to type fast at work.

I am done with SS..this really nails it.


its amazing how skewed some of you are.



look at how negative you are.

you rip my education. why? because you got fycked over by a women and are bitter?

you tell me im sure for a divorce??

why dont I just kill my gf and the kid..to get out of it?

im sorry you dated *****s and got ur ego bruised.




man you must be massively jealous of the people who have children get married and have a great family.

this place is a negative joke..I almost dont believe so many people can have such a negative outlook on life

 

[WestCoaster]

Like I said -- and your lack of composure shows it -- never take advice from a 23-year old with a pregnant gf. Not flaming, just telling you the truth.

Here's a hint: Quit adding to the social problems in this country and GET MARRIED IF SHE'S PREGNANT.

Uh, we're not the ones skewered, guys who impregnate gf's at 23 are the ones skewered and I have dozens of statistics to show you if you don't think that's the case. But I forgot ... you're different than them, uh yeah, right.

 

[frivolousz21]

what the fyck are u talking about?

a statistic?

how about ive had more expierence with women than you.


then again im sure you will make up some stories to better your cause.


I make more then enough money to support my family without her working.

and she has is graduating with a BA this yr.

why dont you close your mouth about things you dont know about.

YES you idiot..I really meant to get her pregnent....


im sure you realize accidents happen.

MR great man.

when you wreck your car on accident and kill someone..whats will you say for a stat?

your exempt?

 

[WestCoaster]

Uh, wtf did you just write? It's unreadable.

Good luck with your future family, I hope you hang in there. Work on that temper big guy.

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Well Friv.,

I just hope your ready to pay 18 years of vagina money regardless IF this does or doesn’t work out.

Good Luck

 

[frivolousz21]

Work on that temper big guy.

its not a temper....I wrote valid points on finding a good women.

and you discredited me because I dont watch my type?

thats just like the guys on the other forum..trying to nit pick everything I say....because of whatever reason..gets frustrating.


im not right 100 percent of the time..but I wont throw out what someone says because of there type and age

 

[frivolousz21]

I just hope your ready to pay 18 years of vagina money regardless IF this does or doesn’t work out

wont it be the same when you have kids?

or im guessing ur not having kids?

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
wont it be the same when you have kids?

or im guessing ur not having kids?

When and IF I have kids is when I’m happily married.


You don’t pay vagina money when you are married and have a kid. Your using joint money to spend on your beloved child.

There’s a difference when you do it out of love or because the law demands you to do it.

Now I’m not condemning those that married young and have kids but right not it’s not for me.

But what I don’t like is a child born out of wedlock.

That’s just wrong.

Another child grown up with out a proper father is a screwed up one.

A baby should have Parents that are LEGALLY MARRIED. It takes 2 to raise one.

 

[frivolousz21]

of course im gonna raise my child.

you have sex.

you know it happens..regardless of how hard you try to prevent it.

we will get married...and work on this together.

if we ever get divorced....then I still stay the father.

there is a chance to divorce even after being happily married.

but I choose not to see the bad side...I know bad things can happen..but im a positive person..I believe a positive outloook is best.

if people want to be cynical about everything good for them...they wont ever be truely happy.

ill deal with any injucnture when it comes.


thanks for wishing me good luck

 

[hithard]

Your been taking a few wacks around the forum Friv but your points are valid.Its simple advice that everone should follow before the lust blinders take over.Congrats on the kid as well, all the best.Lol love talk gets the masses stired up though.I'd wait till you hit the 3-5 year mark before you get taken seriously

 

[Centaurion]

I'm sorry, I don't usually post in this forum, but I had to this time just to say this :

BWHAHAHAAHAHAHAH

I'm still waiting for his gf to dump his ass, and him coming crying back to ss.

 

[Crowes]

Friv, I personally think you are an idiot from the stuff I've seen you write. (I know you are a lib) That being said I wish you all the best w/ your 'situation'.

23, and a pregnant GF? I hope you have fulfilled all the things YOU wished to do for yourself in life. 23 is really young kiddo.

Can I ask, if this was planned, and be honest, what in the hell posessed you to impregnate this girl as opposed to nutting in her mouth?

Your choice? I think not. Not one of my friends nor myself was ever thinking kids or marraige at 23. Sounds to me like she roped you and w/ the pregnancy, hobbled you. Yea, that is red state cowboy talk son.

You knocked her up so, I can't really offer you any advice, except to say I hope all works out favorably. If you don't have a good job, get one now, there's some obvious advice.

 

[DJDamage]

Did you use a condom? what happened??!! well regardless if you are 100% the kid is yours, and you are in love with her and she with you and you know she is not fvcked in the head and has the qualities to be a decent wife, then all the power to you, congradulation!

Otherwise it is a foolish thing to get married due to an accident just because "IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO". It takes more then love to make marriage work. Its not for lazy people because it requires alot of sacrifice and hard work. A whiney princess will not make a good wife. Having a Baby is one of the biggest tests in a marriage because normally a baby adds stress to a relationship.

DjDamage

 

[penkitten]

good luck !

 

[frivolousz21]

Centaurion - I'm sorry, I don't usually post in this forum, but I had to this time just to say this :

BWHAHAHAAHAHAHAH

I'm still waiting for his gf to dump his ass, and him coming crying back to ss.





you are extremely inmature for being 21 yrs old.

 

[frivolousz21]

Your choice? I think not. Not one of my friends nor myself was ever thinking kids or marraige at 23. Sounds to me like she roped you and w/ the pregnancy, hobbled you. Yea, that is red state cowboy talk son.

ummm, no we started dating, got exclusive, after 2 months....fell in love...she was a virgin....we started having alot of sex..and I suppose the method of protection didnt work.


why do you guys always think and look for the most NEGATIVE POSSIBLE SITUATION?

but thanks for wishing me good luck

 

[WestCoaster]

Not trying to be negative ...

... but two months is too early to be "in love." You just do not know a person after two months.

I wish you well, but sadly you should've pulled back on everything, the falling in love, the sex, etc. Too late to put the brakes on now. This isn't a flame, but you don't know if you're in love after two months. But I do hope you find true love with your wife (you are marrying her, aren't you?) and your newborn boy or girl.

Then again, I've known people who have had the whirlwind romance and it's lasted longer than those who lived together for many years. You never know ...