If I were to make a list of the most important things a woman must see in you in order for her to pursue you, it would be this.....in order of importance:
1.) Confidence- Confident that you can always pull more chicks, find more options and replace any particular woman with no problems.
2.) A strong frame- meaning you put yourself FIRST always. Your job is not to make a woman happy. Your job is to make YOU happy. If she wants to come along for the ride, great. If not, great. You are leading yourself and it is up to her if she wants to tag along.
3.) Sarcasm/wittiness- it comes with intelligence and the ability to think on your feet. Learning how to use it properly and playfully is essential in push/pull game.
4.) Your purpose: You must have a purpose that revolves around self improvement (finances, career, fitness, etc). Busy men are sexy men in a woman's eyes.
5.) Ability to seduce/being direct
On the contrary, there are things that you can do that are exact opposites that will make women run for the hills:
1.) You submit to her/scarcity mindset
2.) Neediness/Clinginess/Jealousy
3.) Making a woman a priority and trying to do whatever it takes to make her happy
4.) Being boring
5.) Not having the ability to stand up for yourself or put your foot down on disrespectful behavior.
Happy hunting