Simple Post: AFC or NOT?

[rjames407]

Hey guys, there is this girl that I did some college work with before christmas and I asked her out but was too full on and got the 'i have a bf' response.

I randomly got in contact with her the other week and she asked me out for coffee, but then blew me out at the last minute. I left it a week then called her and left a voicemail...she text me saying that everything i say is funny etc etc and she then called me yesterday to catch up and return my call and I said im busy all weekend but we should do breakfast some time this bank hol. I called her tonight as im 'free' or can be....and left VM saying "thought you were having a relaxed weekend, but obviously youve found something adventurous to do (all in upbeat...jokey tone), give me a call when you have a moment".

Do you think this is AFC...to take her call yest and then call her tonight? Im getting a bit bored because she is either playing games or not interested?

Any thoughts guys?

 

[BadsnakeUK]

Just leave it. You've made some effort - its now time for her to respond or get nexted.

 

[MotownMack]

Yep, not sure I would call it AFC yet, but you're on your way if you keep calling her. The more you call, the more pathetic you will start to look, unless her IL is very high (you can obviously get away with a lot more then).

It's really where the interest level is low to moderate when this little tap dance becomes most important. I think it's ok to show a little more interest if you've been out a time or two, but you don't really mention you've been on a date. In which case, you really don't know if she's that interested - and only so much effort should be spent this early on.

You left her some messages, let the next move be hers.