Signs women use to gauge your Interest Level

[Starman]

Guys..I see so many posts on here about simple tests women do to gauge how much of a challenge you are and to gauge your IL in them..Ive come up with some..but Please dont fall for this trap and ask what happened???

#1 HOLDING HANDS - this is body language women use to see if you really like them..its body language for "we are together" and "we like each other"

Hold her hand too soon..and you may well have told her you love her.

#2 Long phone conversations - You are wayyy interested in what she has to say, you have nothing else going on, and she is just sooo interesting to talk to , you just cant hang up!

HANG Up FAST! always be the first to say "Ok I have to go! but we'll talk later!"

#3 Long walks down _______
Long walks with women are symbolic of what people in love do...unless you are drunk..and it came up spontaenously..avoid this stupid harlequin romance novel move.

Women tend to initiate these "long walk" sessions..if they do..just say you are kinda tired..lets take short cuts!

#4 doing Nice things for them others wont - Massaging them, buying them things, expensive dinners, helping them move(when you just met)

These signs all say Im no challenge..I will do ANYTHING to have a chance with you.

there are others..post your own

"I have to go!"

 

[davelmn2003]

alas, I wish you posted this a month earlier...

I violated #1, 3, 4 on by our second date. Now it's all screwed...

To make my failure a constructive case, I give you all some brief details:

#1, we were kissing and then I went for her hand and held it in mine. She didn't object and I thought it was fine... (what the heck, holding hands is more intimate than kissing?!)

#3, ouch....I initiated it. On the first date, we talked about how beautiful it would be when leaves would grow back on all the trees along a particular river. On our second date, even before the leaves grew back, I said, let's take a walk along the river. She didn't object, and seemed interested. Why can't women just tell you what they think?

#4, after the long walk on our second date, we walked right to a moderately expensive restaurant. I chose it because on our first date I picked a regular restaurant which was very busy and noisy and she was rather surprised. So, the second date I took her to this dimly lit and nicely decorated bar-grill. She even remarked that it was expensive stuff...I thought she'd be impressed...Well, actually her friend told me that she (her friend) was impressed--I don't know about my girl though...

wish I knew this earlier....

 

[Imbrondir]

pfft.... what's the deal about holding hands?

David Deangelo wrote a perfect approach on this. Take her hand, then later on, take it away, and accuse her of 'trying to hold hands too soon'.

 

[All_Torque]

wish you posted this a month earlier...

Jesus, you've been her a month and hadn't figured all this out already???


If being a fool cost money, this site must've saved me millions.

 

[Starman]

when holding hands..no longer than a few seconds..then scratch your azz or something...just give her a taste

and stop talking about things that are "beautiful"

talk about how you kicked some dude's azz for talkin smack to your sister, how u got in a car crash at this very corner, etc

 

[Mukester]

Originally posted by Starman


#1 HOLDING HANDS - this is body language women use to see if you really like them..its body language for "we are together" and "we like each other"

No No No you got this wrong...this needs clarification!
You can do the hand holding thing if you do it right!

-Taking a girl by the hand and leading her somewhere shows confidence and develops kino. Basically- you are walking her- always be one foot ahead wherever your going even if it is a little insignificant walk to a bar/her room/whatever.


-Taking a girl by the hand and swinging it as you stroll pleasantly down the lane shows you a sap.

There is a difference -'Nuff said

 

[Starman]

"No No No you got this wrong...this needs clarification!
You can do the hand holding thing if you do it right!

-Taking a girl by the hand and leading her somewhere shows confidence and develops kino."



Umm hello..why do you think I said no longer than 10 secs? (i.e. crossing a street, going over bumpy steps , helping her up if she falls, etc ) is fine..

But most women who want to hold your hand and lock fingers is what Im taking about

 

[davelmn2003]

sh!t....we locked fingers as well....and I thought all was going well!!! When we held hands, locked fingers and kissed at the same time, I thought I got her heart---darn it...i was so wrong.

 

[-Zero_h0uR-]

HOWEVER -- You know now, Dave.

Take that to the bank, and let it gain some interest.


-- Zero-

 

[MacAvoy]

Originally posted by davelmn2003
alas, I wish you posted this a month earlier...

Why can't women just tell you what they think?

Your assuming they know what they want.

 

[SlyDonJuan]

Originally posted by Starman

#4 doing Nice things for them others wont - Massaging them, buying them things, expensive dinners, helping them move(when you just met)

Messaging a woman shows that you're interested in them? Huh?!

 

[Escalade]

Massaging is pretty good kino though, so I wouldn't say it's bad.

As long as your not doing it for an hour and you don't do it because she wants you to, it's a pretty good tool in the DJ belt.

 

[Ofus]

massages from the opposite sex make people horny... 'nuff said

 

[Starman]

I will tll you why messaging is counterproductive

Look at the actual act of messaging a woman. The messager in reality is the subservient role in history.

Would you Rather Massage? or be massaged?

I have a friend that goes on dates ..and starts cracking his neck back and forth..the girl says "are you OK??"

then he says "god I have this kink in my neck thats KILLING me! Could you give me a quick rub?"

Usually, women want to help so they will comply. If they say NO! , he says "Please Im serious! its killing me ! Just for like 10 seconds!, I will repay the favor"

I know girls who have admitted they use guys for free dinners, massages, gifts, etc..that they have no interest in

Go rent the Tao of Steve..this further illustrates my point..the scene where the AFC geek is trying to score..by massaging a chick

 

[Ofus]

Originally posted by Starman
I know girls who have admitted they use guys for free dinners, massages, gifts, etc..that they have no interest in

Granted, if the chick has no interest in f**king you anyway, a massage isn't likely to change her mind.

Plus I prefer to be the recipient anyway.

 

[Ubermensch]

*touch* is tricky...

Mukester's right.

It can work greatly in your favor if used properly, or totally botch things up if you cross the line to "clinginess."

It's all a a matter of reading her accurately. It's a skill that develops with experience. Touch is the most effective thing in my arsenal.

If you get a massage going with a gal and she's into it, you're 24-karat gold.

 

[legolas]

Originally posted by Starman
I will tll you why messaging is counterproductive

Look at the actual act of messaging a woman. The messager in reality is the subservient role in history.

Would you Rather Massage? or be massaged?

I have a friend that goes on dates ..and starts cracking his neck back and forth..the girl says "are you OK??"

then he says "god I have this kink in my neck thats KILLING me! Could you give me a quick rub?"

Usually, women want to help so they will comply. If they say NO! , he says "Please Im serious! its killing me ! Just for like 10 seconds!, I will repay the favor"

I know girls who have admitted they use guys for free dinners, massages, gifts, etc..that they have no interest in

Go rent the Tao of Steve..this further illustrates my point..the scene where the AFC geek is trying to score..by massaging a chick

Mmmhhhmm, that's right. It's very subtle but it is right. It all boils down to why you're doing it. Any of these things that you said are wrong to do, there's nothing wrong with them UNTIL you do them with the intention to get the girl. Do them only on your terms only if you want to.

 

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