Shy guy aura

[JB2]

Even though I've worked hard on my image and confidence, I still have a definite "shy guy aura" that girls pick up on. I'll be thinking that I'm doing everything right then they'll blindside me with a comment (one example: "you seem like you read books a lot when you were a kid"). I know the confidence thing has been done to death here, but even after more than a year of practice I still must be putting out shy vibes unconsciously. Is there any way to remedy this other than just to keep plugging away at it?

 

[Jay26]

Keep pluggin away, I mean what else are you going to do? Give up on women and join a monastery. No thanks!

Maybe it's your look or something, or you're eye contact.

 

[LouieVaton Don]

Clarify please

Where are you having trouble with women? As far as the book comment your worrying way too much.

 

[JB2]

That's just an example, I get other comments that aren't really insulting per se but it lets me know that they find me kind of dorky or whatever. I do get women, but they're usually fat or sluts. The ones I want go for the "studly cool guy" rather than the "guy who might be cute but is also goofy" like me.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

walk with your chest protruding slightly more, and start conversation with people randomly more often

If someone irritates you:
UG:"you seem like you read books a lot when you were a kid
JB2:You must've been dropped on your head a lot when you were a child

 

[Mazman]

I know you mentioned you changed your image.

Don't take this the wrong way, but do you look dorky? How you dress has a big influence on girls.

How old are you and these girls/women are anyway?