Showing insecurity...

[dayvidaims]

What the hell is wrong with me.. After all the things I know from that site how can I possibly do so stupid things with my girlfriend?

Well i have a gf of 2 months now and I'm really into her. The problem is that in the way I act to her lately I show a lot of insecurity.

Recently I had a problem with my stomach due to stress and I couldn't eat very well for 1 month (Well I facking know it was about her and I hope she doesn't know that too). She lived me through that and I was sometimes pathetic..

Well during all that I lsot about 5 kg and now I look awful as I was already a little thin. Yeserday a friend of her told me just that and then me idiot felt really down and discussed that with my gf (about how awful I feel about being so thin) GROSS!!!

Well she told me (without me asking) that its true I lost many kilos but she likes me just the way I am..

But why do I show so much insecurity in front of her and can't control it?

How can I turn things around for my image>?

 

[Starman]

well duhhhh!! If you think you are showing insecurity..be conscious next time about not being whiny and insecure..

you might even want to save face and say something like "WHooo! Thanks for backing me up when I was sick and acting like a little whiny ass b1tch!"

this will make her think it was your sickness that made u feel insecure..and not you per se

and stop with this "I look awful" crap..you are bringing yourself (and your weight) down!

so u lost a few lbs..big deal..your girl does like u for who you are..slim

 

[dayvidaims]

yeah it might all be just in my head...

but i'll try to never show insecure again as last night..

today we met and everything was o.k...

 

[Julian]

Your "friend" sounds like a b1tch talking sh1t about you to your gf.