Title pretty much says it all. After this approach Im seriously wondering if its even worth it to read indicators of interest or whatever. I was at the dog park w my pooch and it was just me and this girl and her dog. After a few min I opened just w some small talk about her dog and next thing you know she is sitting at my bench.(Our benches were a good 40 feet apart originally). Anyhow she sits and starts talking, I talked about 10-20 percent of time at most asking questions etc and she was originally very nervous yet quickly opened up. She was playing w her hair laughing, good eye contact. I asked her name she stuck out her hand and immediately asked mine. After about 15-20 min Im thinking to myself this is about a sure thing as Ive ever had talking to a woman. Shes 43 btw yet looked about 30 she was very beautiful to me about 5 foot tall in great shape, etc. Anyways Im getting ready to leave and tell her we should get a drink and she pauses and then says "sure..but I have a bf"..LOL I was seriously stunned in this instance. She then said she appreciated me asking and was hoping wed see each other again at the dog park. I said its cool.( I know some like to kind of push it when a chick says she has a bf, but Ive never really tried it so it honestly didnt occur to me)..anyways she just sort of hung around for a second and I broke the silence and said well I have to go it was great meeting you..Anyways Im leaving some things out however this was about as blatant as it can get and we had an immediate connection, yet and still...she wasnt available or so she says. Im sure I coulda been a little stronger asking to meet up(in fact shoulda just gone for number), but other than that this was pretty much me being approached haha. Has anyone run into anything like this? Ive talked w girls where things were not even close to this good and I ended up going out w them. just confusing maybe Id have been better off asking earlier in the convo if she had a bf, but this is something that never really feels natural to me. I normally wouldnt bring this up but like I said this was as sure a thing( or so I thought) as Ive had in awhile. any advice is great, are there other ways Im missing to tell wether your just being used for validation, or its real? And I dont claim to be a master DJ or anything but I know the difference between just friendly talk and something else.The lines were clearly blurred here lol.
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