should you respond to her BS little white lies when you're meeting for a date?

[drift king]

girls keep telling stupid little lies expecting us to believe them.

i was suppose to meet this HB from facebook tonight, she previously cancelled on me twice but counteroffered the 1st time. 1st time she just had exam that day and was going on holiday so was packing (i know stupid excuse even tho it was true)the 2nd time last week was she had an infection (another excuse.. being ill) so this time round she counter offered with tonight with a promise.

basically i confirmed it with her last night and texted her before i left today. she tells me shes going to be 15 mins late cos trains are slow. (seemed BS that she was just running late getting herself ready)

then hear this. when i get there and it's about 10 mins after we're suppose to meet she f-ing cancels on me saying shes really sorry but got into a fight with her boyfriend so cant come.

im obviously furious and told her off for disrespecting my time and wasting my time making me come all the way down and if she was on her way down as per her text about trains being slow how come shes not here already?

she then texts me that shes really sorry and was on her way down (bullsh1t) and didnt expect to get into a fight with her bf.

 

[drift king]

the situation was that she thought i was hot and wanted to meet me, she didn't tell me she had a bf cos she didn't want me to know. she obviously got into a fight about her meeting me.

now im sitting there thinking this stupid b1tch has wasted my time and is lying to me. i tried to make the point that if she was on her way down then how can she not be here already.. however i didn't say that she was lying. which maybe i should have since how can she know the trains are late if shes not already on the platforms.

i know what i did is wrong and i get really frustrated cos this has happened before where i get cancelled on when i get there for stupid reasons, especially with these facebook b1tches.

when she text me that she had a fight with her bf and couldn't make it should i have just not even responded and deleted her number?

i dont really know what to do in these situations, i usually end up just telling them off then i come across as psycho cos im still a stranger she hasn't met.

i cant even think about meeting up with her now after her disrespect shes shown even if she contacts me to meet up. but because i ranted at her with my texts telling her off for what she did that wont happen anyway like it usually does. how do u deal with these fvcked up situations walking away with pride?

cos i just dont seem to get it.

 

[chinwaggler]

forget about her

 

[bukowski_merit]

no doubt about it, let this breezy go...
#1 she's flaked on you 3 times
#2 she lied about being on her way to see you
#3 she probably doesn't have a bf and magically made one up because she's a flake from the internet who can't handle real social stimulation...
#4 who cares how you let her go? just don't talk to her anymore... she might test you on facebook - just say whatever you want as long as it's not that you want to continue a life with her - or ignore her... f her...

the way you deal with this is to realize that it's not you (well it kind of is since you're meeting woman off the internet who flake constantly). the way to deal with this is... to not care... you maintain your pride by realizing that she saved you time, money, and effort by not showing up... who cares how sexy her profile pics are, or that she thought you were hot...