HB7 has demonstrated a lot of interest in me. Last weekend, I went over to her house to watch a movie. No sex (her brother was upstairs), but we did make out for half an hour on her couch. I was considering texting her tomorrow to set up a date for Friday, and this got me thinking - Should the guy always be the one to initiate the date?
Should the guy always be the one to initiate the date?
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RangerMIke
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Call her, you MUST ask her out she will NOT initiate. Don't text, definately ask her out. It is the man's responsibility to make things happen.
Just got off the phone with a women which will be our second date next week. Here is how it went.
Me: Erica this is Mike i'll be in town next Wednesday and I hope you're free for dinner (She lives in Layfayette)
Woman: Tommorrow?
Me: No, NEXT Wednesday, I'm not cad enough to think you would be free on one day's notice.
Woman: I'm free where are we going?
Me: It's a surprise, dress casual I'm wearing jeans and a sports coat.. promise you'll love it. Will pick you up at 7.
Woman: Sounds great, see you then.
Me: Looking forward to seeing you, til then Bye.
Then hang up... that's how it's done... don't get into too much convo... save it until she's sitting in front of you. She is going to be spending the entire week thinking about this date. A woman becomes more interested in you when you are NOT talking to her... by the time I see her, I will be able to read her BL and determine if I have a shot at moving this forward. Truth is I REALLY like this woman, but will not lose frame, she will not her from me until I show up to pick her up. You will get the best results when you do things this way.
First date she mentioned to me she had a boyfriend... never pay any attention to that sh!t. Women always have some freaking beta orbiter floating around. Always assume it's a test until proven otherwise. If she REALLY had a BF she would not have agreed to a second date. I think my chances of ending up the evening in the horizontal position is very good.
Just got off the phone with a women which will be our second date next week. Here is how it went.
Me: Erica this is Mike i'll be in town next Wednesday and I hope you're free for dinner (She lives in Layfayette)
Woman: Tommorrow?
Me: No, NEXT Wednesday, I'm not cad enough to think you would be free on one day's notice.
Woman: I'm free where are we going?
Me: It's a surprise, dress casual I'm wearing jeans and a sports coat.. promise you'll love it. Will pick you up at 7.
Woman: Sounds great, see you then.
Me: Looking forward to seeing you, til then Bye.
Then hang up... that's how it's done... don't get into too much convo... save it until she's sitting in front of you. She is going to be spending the entire week thinking about this date. A woman becomes more interested in you when you are NOT talking to her... by the time I see her, I will be able to read her BL and determine if I have a shot at moving this forward. Truth is I REALLY like this woman, but will not lose frame, she will not her from me until I show up to pick her up. You will get the best results when you do things this way.
First date she mentioned to me she had a boyfriend... never pay any attention to that sh!t. Women always have some freaking beta orbiter floating around. Always assume it's a test until proven otherwise. If she REALLY had a BF she would not have agreed to a second date. I think my chances of ending up the evening in the horizontal position is very good.
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Don't text her tomorrow. It is much too soon. I'd wait for her to reach out first. If she does, keep the chat short and simple. THEN, hit her up NEXT WEEK and set something up for next week. Even if she doesn't reach out to you, still hit her up next week.pr3167 said:
You need to give a woman sometime to think about you and miss you and wonder what is going on with you. She'll start to wonder "Why hasn't he contacted me? Does he not like me? Maybe the kiss was horrible. Omg...he thinks I'm a horrible kisser. I wonder if he has moved on to another girl. Maybe I should have had sex with him."
A woman's mind is a powerful agent of attraction. The more she thinks about you, the more she thinks she likes you.
Don't expose all of yourself too soon and too much. Feed her crumbs like a drug addict bit by bit.