LeChanteur
Don Juan
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Hey all, new to the board but long time lurker. Thought I'd join up and get amongst it.
I have a question I'm seeking some superior DJ advice on as most of my usual wingmen/friends don't seem to have the answers.
Anyways, last year I took a temp job at a winery. Pretty sweet deal: room/food/wine and a nice little vacation. Anyway. The winery ran tours and one of the tour guides was this great HB. Now we didn't work together as such (I was behind the scenes) but I saw her regularly and we got on well. I got all the right signs, got the number and asked her out.
So we went out once, it went okay. Besides being a HB she's an amazing person so I was stoked. We went out a second time during which she let 'slip' (don't you love it?) that she had a BF. Damn. Now I was confused, I've been in the game long enough to recognize the signs and know what I'm doing but somehow this one had slipped under the radar.
I've read that sometimes girls go out with other guys while 'breaking up' with their BF so they're never single and she wasn't the type to go cheating. Anyway we ended the date well and I saw her again after that and while I was friendly I basically didn't push it any further.
The job ended and I left, I saw her before we left. I was pretty sure by this stage she had broken up with her BF. She gave me the 'anytime you want to hang out give me a call' So that was it at this stage I was already seeing someone else and pretty happy.
Time past and I forgot about this girl from the winery. Then when I was cleaning out my phone found her number and sent her a msg just saying hi and seeing what she was up to. I just figured she would be a great friend. Got a nice reply and left it at that.
Now, I've recently been looking back and figure there may have been a chance for something else (even if it was a great friendship) and I know her Bday is coming up soon. I'm single again and figure I might give it a shot. Any advice on what I should do? I thought I might just send her a msg.
I have a question I'm seeking some superior DJ advice on as most of my usual wingmen/friends don't seem to have the answers.
Anyways, last year I took a temp job at a winery. Pretty sweet deal: room/food/wine and a nice little vacation. Anyway. The winery ran tours and one of the tour guides was this great HB. Now we didn't work together as such (I was behind the scenes) but I saw her regularly and we got on well. I got all the right signs, got the number and asked her out.
So we went out once, it went okay. Besides being a HB she's an amazing person so I was stoked. We went out a second time during which she let 'slip' (don't you love it?) that she had a BF. Damn. Now I was confused, I've been in the game long enough to recognize the signs and know what I'm doing but somehow this one had slipped under the radar.
I've read that sometimes girls go out with other guys while 'breaking up' with their BF so they're never single and she wasn't the type to go cheating. Anyway we ended the date well and I saw her again after that and while I was friendly I basically didn't push it any further.
The job ended and I left, I saw her before we left. I was pretty sure by this stage she had broken up with her BF. She gave me the 'anytime you want to hang out give me a call' So that was it at this stage I was already seeing someone else and pretty happy.
Time past and I forgot about this girl from the winery. Then when I was cleaning out my phone found her number and sent her a msg just saying hi and seeing what she was up to. I just figured she would be a great friend. Got a nice reply and left it at that.
Now, I've recently been looking back and figure there may have been a chance for something else (even if it was a great friendship) and I know her Bday is coming up soon. I'm single again and figure I might give it a shot. Any advice on what I should do? I thought I might just send her a msg.