Should i tell her or not? (TRICKY) Hehe

[Zeus]

Hey Guys!! I haven't visited this page for ages... I remember before i sat here hours and hours learning tips n tricks =)

Now i'am flying Solo

Look guys... I met this beautful girl yesterday night.. We went out and had a really nice time... I'am fallning in love with her. And she told me she does the same =)

She tells me whole the time how great i'am, charming and so on..... She truley belives that i'am Don Juan, she told me that she he has never met a guy like me. And i'am like 193 cm (TALL!), Got good body, smile, eyes.. Thats what girls tell me anyway

But i'am a down to earth guy. So she thinks i have had many girls in my life.... So she asked me how many girls i have slept with... I told her 5. 3 of em ware girlfriends and 2 just one night stand... And she had no problem with that at all. Then i asked her, and she told me she was a virgin, and i really belive her.


Now to the problem! I haven't slept with anyone! I lied! But i'am a damn good lier! **I*AM WAITING FOR THE SPECIAL ONE**

Should i tell her that i'am also a virgin like her? So that she feels more connected to me, or should i just go on with my life?

Please help me on this one. Thx guys!

 

[isotope]

if she is a virgin, i would say tell her. then you both will be on equal footing, and she may feel better. either way, talk about it. even if she might feel (more/less) happy about you being (one or the other), you can still talk openly and make her feel ok with it

 

[hardwork]

Discussion

 

[Player_Supreme]

Look guys... I met this beautful girl yesterday night.. We went out and had a really nice time... I'am fallning in love with her.

Is that a miss print or did you actually write that you met someone yesterday and today your actually falling in love with her?

Oh cool screen name. Zeus in Greek mythology is known as a great seducer.

 

[SamePendo]

Ok, you falling in love with someone at almost-first sight, I have no problem with, none.
But the fact that you lied to that person, that makes it a problem.

So:
1) Why on earth are you falling in love with someone by only meeting them for some hours (if not minutes?)
2) Why do you lie to someone you ¨are falling in love with¨ (you are allready in love with her).
3) Are you looking for a LTR or just sex?
4) If you are, indeed, looking for a LTR, why on earth did you lie to her?
5) Didnt your mom tell you lying is bad?

 

[Starman]

its too early in your "relationship" to be talking about past loves/sexual relations

you guys are moving waaay too fast..and both of you are too eager to show your "love" by being blatently honest with each other

yo playa supreme

Narcissus was the ultimate seducer in greek mythology

but he was supposedly sooooo good looking..women(and men) could not resist him (he even fell in love with his own reflection and died from starvation because he couldnt leave the sight of himself he was soo in love)

but Zeus had Rank and power..so he could pretty much take whoever he wanted

aphrodite(venus) was a female seducer (the counterpart of narcissus) her beauty led many gods to their downfall

 

[Click Here]

I'am fallning in love with her. And she told me she does the same =)[/B]

Ok romeo, have fun with your 3 day romance get married then kill yourselfs when your infatuation wears off. I'd say you tell her you lied to look cool and you wanna swap virginities.

 

[Zeus]

Heheeh guys =) Damn, i used wrong word there. "LOVE"

I LIKE the girl very much, and like being with her. And no, i don't love her, not yet.

 

[Santos]

I don't believe love at first sight exists. Love is something that takes time to grow and involves trust and mutual respect. I have, however, become VERY attracted to a girl after only our first date (i.e. Beyond physical attraction). One of those people you just "click" with, your ideologies are the same, you share similar interests and her personality has traits I look for (creativity, intelligence, humour).

 

[MoAF]

I believe it exists. I mean, come now... for all you guys who meet tons of women, haven't you ever just met someone and felt it deep inside?

 

[dionysius_d]

you're in lust, not love..

ok you lied.. for a start NEVER be exact about how many girls you slept with.. (i can't even remember my own statistics).. but just never give out that info!! just divert the topic.. and act like its 'a few'.

OK you BS'ed.. you will have to either act AS IF you know what you're doing at the time (just pretend or act as if), else visit a ***** house real soon for some practice.

either way, it doesn't matter, since she seems quite wrapped from what you say.. although it might not last too long if you don't get those stars out of your eyes.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Ok you lied, don't tell her THAT!!!! She'll assume your a liar in many other aspects of your life. Bro you sound like an AFC, I know the "love" line was a misprint(supposedly) but don't try to tell her your a virgin too, "so you are more connected." LOL


There's nothing good that will come out of telling her you still hold clean credit on your V-card. She will:

-get mad and not trust you, especially since you've only known eachother for half a week.

-think that your lying about your virgin status so you can bang her.


Do you get it? Its a lose-lose situation. I think all that time you spent away from this site, is bringing your inner AFC back out. READ UP.



PIMP

 

[seulaxplaya]

i say next her. reasons: you already lied to her. therefore she will always have doubt about the things you tell her. She may think you are lying about ur virginity because you want to get with her. You say you just met her and you are already falling in love with her? thats a little fast dont ya think. seems like you are setting yourself for a huge downfall later on. Just think about it its been less then a month and ur already falling for this chick and vice versa. Not a good combination. I think those are two pretty good reasons and if you think differently thats cool. Its all about whatever floats your boat. Good luck