Should I Take Her To Las Vegas Or Not?

[MIKEMANN]

Here's my problem.... i met this girl(she's a med student) about a month and a half ago. She has the greatest personality, and i think thats what attracted her to me so much.We went on numerous dates. Each date i paid for; which i guess is what comes with the rules of dating. but she would always recommend going out and i would pay. i don't play alot of games with chicks so on the forth date I told her how i felt about her and that i wanted to be with her. By the third date we were hugging and kissing as if we were a couple. She never pulled away from my hugs and kisses, but at the same time she never make a move the to kiss me it was always me going to her. So after one of our dates i told her i was going on vacation, to Vegas. She said that she was going with her family that weekend before i was going,and suggested that i come up to Vegas the day she drops her family off at the airport and,we can be up there together after......That how this Vegas Trip Was Started!!! moving back to the story.

After our dates we would go back to her place and i would spend the night, But when ever I would make a move in bed she would stop me before my d!ck can get completely hard. I always came through for her. like last week me and my best friends took off work to help her move in her new apartment.(she had some heavy s!ht too). That night I spend a night again at the new apartment. When i tried to make a move that night...i was kissing on her neck and started moving close and she said "PAUSE!", I was like what the ****!!!. I just got up and went to the living room to cool off cause i almost choked that *****. So I after that night decided to see how she would act if i just disappear and not call and be busy....do you know this ***** didn't call me to four days later, just to ask if i got my tickets to Vegas yet? a couple days ago she text me to meet for lunch. I agreed; and we met; which in fact i paid for again like a dump ass!!!.

HERE IS THE THINGS THAT GIVE ME MY DOUBTS ABOUT BEING IN VEGAS WITH HER.


1. I don't know where i stand with her. we agreed to see how things go, but she acts like she does not want to be intimate with me but we kiss and hug alot.

2.I do a lot for her because i want to,but she shows no appreciation for it, she said "i never ask these guys for the stuff, because if things don't go right i don't want them throwing it back in my face." but she never said NO. or stopped me in that case!!!!

3.I'm not sure if she is having sex with some one else or if she is making me wait for Vegas.

4.she's not open with her feelings,or feelings about me. But she keep saying that I'm different from most guys she knows. WTF Different HOW???

So with all that said I'm not sure if she is a user or testing me and making me wait.( i hope for Vegas.) I hope i said enough for your advice if not ask me any ?'s to help me decide before i go.

 

[Phyzzle]

Well, does she initiate ANYTHING? Does she put her arm around you when you're walking? Or is getting her to touch you like pulling teeth?

If she seems to like touching you give her a little more time, but eventually, you'll have to ask. She could be a virgin or could have herpes. I hate to talk about sex before having it, but if nothing has happened after this Vegas trip, I'd ask what's up.

Oh, and when she said "PAUSE" I would have frozen with my mouth on her neck and not moved, heh.

on the forth date I told her how i felt about her and that i wanted to be with her.

Bit of a mistake. Let her talk 1st about relationships.

Are you going on vacation alone to Vegas? Even if you never get laid, Vegas will probably be more fun with a chick around (might help you pick up other girls.)

Is she a virgin?

 

[blueguy]

If she's not a virgin, DO NOT TAKE HER TO VEGAS.

You said:

"What if she's making me wait until Vegas?"

LOL. If she's not a virgin, she's dangling a little carrot in front of your nose and always will. You would have had sex by now. Which would mean she is basically just using you for attention now.

 

[MIKEMANN]

yes when we walk she puts her arm around me,but that just makes me more confused; what is she looking for out of me, because I'm not looking forward to being her girlfriend like friend. I can just move on to someone i could be ****ing right now; but I'm trying hard to figure this **** out before i invest any more of me into it.

she said she's not a virgin,and from when she talked about her passed relationships. she doesn't want a relationship but want the benefits of one except for the intimate part. i just wonder if I'm wasting my time and if i being used.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

If she's not a virgin, DO NOT TAKE HER TO VEGAS.

You said:

"What if she's making me wait until Vegas?"

LOL. If she's not a virgin, she's dangling a little carrot in front of your nose and always will. You would have had sex by now. Which would mean she is basically just using you for attention now.

Exaclty right. And MIKEMANN, it is your fault for her behavior. After going on all those "numerous dates" with her, and not progressing/escalating physically, she already put you in the "provider" role; that is where your value to her lies. Why would she "give up" that, when she hasn't had to sleep with you. You are already behaving like a good puppy.

She would have been ok with you moving more aggresively had you done it early, before you started spending all that money on her. It is your responsibilty to initiate with women. Don't be at her mercy when it comes to this.

Gentlemen, yet another example why it is a very bad idea to take them out on dates and pay for them, specially before you have seen her naked and before she has proven herself to you.

That is why I make sure they come over and cook/bring me food before I start spending money and buying their time.

 

[Scought]

" I could be (with) other girls?"

So why aren't you?
You aren't married?
Aren't in a relationship?
Haven't had sex.

Date other people. It makes this issue seem very very trivial.

I date 2-3 women at a time and end up HOPING they cancel or don't call for a few days because it gives me time to A) hang out with other women b) hang out with friends C) meet new women.

 

[PRMoon]

If you want to start something with this girl, don't bring her to vegas. If there's doubt as to where her loyalty lies, you need to resolve that before you come to a crazy out of control town where you leave your inhibitions at the airport...the both of you. Temptation is abundant and the chance to define your relationship is non existant.

Go to bryce canyon or zion national park and camp or something.

 

[COD]

TRY THIS........when you are kissing rub her crotch, stop when she gives you some resistance then after a short break start up again.

escalate...........if you still get resistance, ask her what gives.

THE ANSWER-ask and she will tell you whats up.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

TRY THIS........when you are kissing rub her crotch, stop when she gives you some resistance then after a short break start up again.

escalate...........if you still get resistance, ask her what gives.

THE ANSWER-ask and she will tell you whats up.

Yes, you can try all of this, which is probably what you've done already, but don't do it in Las Vegas. Go to your trip without her, as, ironically, that will peak her legitimate interest in you, if there is any chance still.

 

[armadon]

Why would you bring a women to vegas? What a waste of a vegas trip.

 

[backbreaker]

only an idiot would take a woman to a place where they have the freakin bunny ranch

 

[sparky0000]

Problem with Las Vegas is the gambling age is 21! What happens if she is younger than that? Are you forced to take the chub to McDonalds? America is the gayest place on this planet. I swear. I know of casinos where 12 year old kids place bets with their parents.

America was made for the milf. That is for damn sure.

 

[bman]

do you bring sand with you when you go to the beach?

do you bring a sandwich with you when you go to an all you can eat buffet?

 

[Last Man Standing]

Bringing a hor to "Vegas" is like bring ice to the Artic!!!

 

[Create Reality]

I think we get the picture lms :crackup:

 

[backbreaker]

LMS, that's my new sig

 

[Create Reality]

who else? :nervous: NO ONE I HOPE! :crackup:

 

[Last Man Standing]

do you bring sand with you when you go to the beach?

do you bring a sandwich with you when you go to an all you can eat buffet?

I just read Bman's post which basically says the same thing as I did - "sand to the beach" - let's give him a round of applause for acknowledgment!

 

[lookyoung]

Any girl that you go out with 3 dates and does not sleep with you (virgins being the exception.) should at least give you a reason why she is not giving you the pu$$y. THe only excuse I find acceptable is I ONLY SLEEP WITH BOYFRIENDS. I have had a quite a few girls pull this excuse on me, and this is there way of forcing you to make them your GF. This shows that they have a high interest level in me. After this I will usually tell them if I see them has GF material and what my expectations are. (IF I don't see them as GF material I will be honest with them.

If a girl is not giving you the pu$$y it is because of these reasons.
1. Low interest level.
2. She sees you as her GF.
3. She has no respect for you. She sees you as an AFC.

This girl is holding on to you until a better deal comes along.

Your in a no-win situation. As the saying goes don't make people a priority when they make you an option.


You taking this girl to vegas is the dumbest thing I have ever heard in my life.

 

[WaterTiger]

Is she using you? YES! YES! YES! You're paying for all the dates, meals & fun, yet she "doesn't want an inimate relationship"??? (She lets you get all hot and bothered before yelling PAUSE!)

I'd tell her: "No you aren't going with me to Vegas! I WANT TO HAVE SEX IN VEGAS AND WE BOTH KNOW YOU'RE FRIGID!!!!!!!!!!!!