Should I still try to talk to this girl?

[and1play5]

During the end summer classes I started to talk to this girl and she told me that she's "technically" single but she says her and her ex still act like their together. The other day we had a nice little texting convo for about an hour and she was telling me about herself and things like that.

Anyways last night I texted her and this other girl im talking to "what do you think about me. Girl B said "I mean ur cool I just can't rush into anything anymore because thats where I always mess up" Girl A(the one I was talking about originally) says...
Girl A: what do you mean

Me: Mornin!...I mean like if I really tried to talk to you I wouldn't wanna feel like I'm wasting my time...say you start talking to your ex again or something like that

Girl A: Well I told you me and my ex aren't officially going out but we act like we're together so it would be impossible to take things to like talking to me to start anything you know?"

I didn't know what she ment so I just "ahhhh I see" she said "yeah". Then we had a little convo about what we did yesterday. Is this something that I should still pursue or should I just make girl B my primary target? She gives me mixed signals.

 

[PectoralisMajor]

RE:Me: Mornin!...I mean like if I really tried to talk to you I wouldn't wanna feel like I'm wasting my time...say you start talking to your ex again or something like that

Comon mate - thats not playing it cool, and it sounds needy - which your not right, because you have more than one girl on the go.

Sounds like she has / had interest initially. Dont get so heavy with her, treat it light.

If it was me, I'd leave it 2-3 days without texting or calling. Then I would give her a call and ask her to hang out. If you BOTH have fun, then keep going the way you are, flirt, kino, have a laugh.

If her staying in touch with the ex bothers you, drop her, or keep her as a friend only.

oh and stop quizzing the girl about where you stand. ONLY girls do that....

 

[and1play5]

anymore insight?

 

[DJDamage]

Girl A: Well I told you me and my ex aren't officially going out but we act like we're together so it would be impossible to take things to like talking to me to start anything you know?"

Oh man, chicks those days think they are so clever. They talk like a sphnix to throw guys off on what they really mean. Luckily for you I got my PHD in that department to tell you exectly what she is saying:

Translation: "Me and my boyfriend are still fvcking but technically speaking I am looking for an upgrade."

What does it all means? it means that guys with game will look past this B.S and will still try to hook up with her while guys with weak game will listen to what she tells them and concede defeat, thus she is able to filter out the weak more easily by giving out this message. The fact that you confront her about this and you are making an issue of this, pretty much tells me that her filter is working.

 

[DJDamage]

Some of you guys have no clue between the difference of "no means yes" and "f-ck off".

Can you expend on that? I am not sure if you are disagreeing with me or agreeing.

 

[Play the Game]

Haha i like this Amante guy... he knows his sh1t and gets to the point.

I made out with a chick who was technically still with her boyfriend just by pushing her. She gave me the exact same line too.
Just gotta have confidence.

She didn't technically say no, that's just your low self esteem telling you you're a loser. She made a lame ass excuse cuz she didn't feel it for you. yet. Make the Ho say NO!

 

[DJDamage]

The first thing a guy like him needs to do is cut this BS out pronto. If he doesn't know how to nip BS and cut corners, any advise that suggests otherwise is going to be played out chump-style.

Couldn't have said it better myself. Even if he change's course now and believes that he can have her based on the knowledge he got from this site, the fact that he didn't recognise the situation nor his shortcoming's will not help him. It is not enough knowing the way but knowing how to walk the way from the begining to end.

 

[ConantheLibertarian]

It is not enough knowing the way but knowing how to walk the way from the begining to end.

Dayam, how profound .