should I stay or should I go.

[mysterymanelp]

A guy at worked asked me if i could take a look at his neighbors computer. As I walk into his neighbors house there was this attractive girl there i played it cool picked on her a little about not know about computers etc. Her and her friends leave for lunch while I stay and work on the computer. They come back and I am finished I tell her that she owes me big time for fixing her computer. She tries to give me candy, but i refuse it telling her that she needs to take me out to lunch. She says that i should have went with her and her friends. I say we'll you can take me out and where are you gonna take me and she says how about outback steak house we'll i guess that will do.

I would like you guys advice on what i should to and what areas i might need to inprove in.

 

[DJDamage]

Not sure about this one.... you kinda cornerd this chick into buying you dinner on the spot without getting her number and calling her and setting up the date on your terms not her.

You are implying as if "she owes you" and you try to get a date without clearly stating "THAT IT IS A DATE". Often women tend to act like small children and pretend they don't understand between a friendly get together and a real date.

But who knows it could still turn out in your favour if she keeps up the promise and take you out and then you can use DJ techniques on her. If she cancels on you or brings her friends its all over and you should move on.

Not too bad over all but could be better.

 

[Survivor]

Guilt trips are very weak way of getting a females attention. The fact that you even posted this tells me that you may also be developing a case of infactuation.

Never tell a girl that she owes you anything. Cause in reality, she doesn't. If she does take you out to lunch, she should do because she truly wants to and not out of any obligation.

Next time you see her, do it the right way. Have an honest, seductive converstion with her and see where it leads. Preferably, talk about something else other than computers. And if you do go to the lunch, go with the intent of simply having a good time. DO NOT TRY TO IMPRESS HER. If you do, you'll only make a fool out of yourself.

No more games. No more guilt trips. They simply do not work.

In any case, its in your best interest to not get bent out of shape if she turns out to be disinterested.

 

[Gold Heart]

I disagree with the two above me, mainly because I've done something similar to this before.

Now, assuming that you played this off exactly how I did, she most likely loves your teasing and confidence in asking her out. She gave you candy. Did you say "NO, TAKE ME OUT I HATE CANDY" or something like "Cute, but I think you should take me out instead." ??

If it's the second one then it's all in the bag.

But wait a second. A guy from your work? Is this "attractive girl" his girlfriend? Sister? Mom? Wife?

Clarify with him who she is first because you don't want any tension between your work buddy. I don't believe in bros before hoes but I believe whatever belongs to someone belongs to someone. And if that was his wife then you cannot interfere. There's no reason to screw up anyone's marriages by putting yourself in the picture.

 

[Gold Heart]

I am also hoping you number closed because if you didn't, then how are you going to meet her for your "date?"

If you did number close, or are going to see her again, make sure you let the date be casual and smooth. Kino now and then, but keep it on the fun side.

 

[Lost In Translation]

as a computer technician and pimp i got the same answer

SHE DOES OWE YOU.

i'll start with the pimp side, you gave her something and like i ask all the b*tches that ring my phone

" whats in it for me ? "

as a computer technician if you been doing it as long as i have you know as soon as you tell ANYONE you meet what you do they say

MY COMPUTER IS ACTING FUNNY / NOT WORKING / I CANT DO BLAH BLAH BLAH

CAN YOU COME OVER TO MY HOUSE AND FIX IT ?

and after being an AFC computer technician for years and trying to save the world from evil trojans, viruses and spyware and user errors

fixing peoples computers for free

it all ended when a guy i helped build his computer 2 years ago turns up at my work and asks me to get a virus off his computer

i say how the fu** did you get that ?

he says i downloaded warez

i said YOU FU** i told you 2 things you don't do if you want to LIMIT harmful **** getting on your computer

Don't download porn and don't download pirated games

he said i will pay you ( not mentioning how much or making me an offer hoping i will be AFC and say for free )

i snapped and burned out and gave up helping people with computers.

anyone that ever says i will pay you with saying how much or making me and offer is trying to use psychology and make me act AFC.

b*tches use the same trick when they trying to get my time.

2 days ago some b*tch rings me up asks me out, offers me petrol money too to cruise with me friday night. i am like cool. then i start thinking it doesn't add up why she offered me petrol money so i ask if she is expecting me to pick up any of her friends. she says yes. CLICK. i hang up and send her an sms explaining that i am a pimp and friday night is ladies night. unless we are hooking up fu** off lol. yes i know it's harsh but the b*tch tried to use me as a taxi so i slammed it back on her.

don't feel bad making her REALISE she owes YOU.

just remember to COLLECT the FULL PAYMENT from the b*tch

by making her say " who's your daddy while respecting her as a woman " haha....



peace,



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “

 

[phillydude]

She wanted to give you CANDY? How old was this girl? I mean... WTF... CANDY?

 

[mysterymanelp]

Her and my coworker are strickly platonic.

She happens to be a contractor working for the same company as me , but only for a week.

So today she calls me and tells me that one of her people are having problems with his computer. So i go over and fix the problem and go back to my desk. I call her after lunch to make sure that her user is able to use the computer she says no, and that i owe her now.

I go over and the computer is fine. USER ERROR. She's drinking bottled water and I tell her where is my bottle water. She goes over to her desk and gets me a bottle water. I tell her its warm so she ask me if i want some ice. She goes to the cafeteria and gets me ice in a cup. After that i tell her that her users computer is fine and i leave.

 

[mysterymanelp]

Originally posted by Gold Heart
I disagree with the two above me, mainly because I've done something similar to this before.

Now, assuming that you played this off exactly how I did, she most likely loves your teasing and confidence in asking her out. She gave you candy. Did you say "NO, TAKE ME OUT I HATE CANDY" or something like "Cute, but I think you should take me out instead." ??

If it's the second one then it's all in the bag.

But wait a second. A guy from your work? Is this "attractive girl" his girlfriend? Sister? Mom? Wife?

Clarify with him who she is first because you don't want any tension between your work buddy. I don't believe in bros before hoes but I believe whatever belongs to someone belongs to someone. And if that was his wife then you cannot interfere. There's no reason to screw up anyone's marriages by putting yourself in the picture.

When she tried to give me the candy i told her that i was not that cheap. She just says your not that cheap.

 

[Player_Supreme]

the title of your posts sounds like the words of a song.

 

[mysterymanelp]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
the title of your posts sounds like the words of a song.

it is

 

[disciple]

Assuming that you did get her numbe, f*ck it, lay your game down on her but don't invest too much time or energy in case she flakes out on you. Also, watch out for those chicks that try to use you, there are alot of them.

 

[mysterymanelp]

stupid thing that i did was i cancelled the lunch that I was suppose to have with her. Why i have no idea why. I'm just gonna have to setup another date.