Should I next this girl?

[Ultra Magnus]

hey guys,

I am new to this board and being educated quite a bit.

Anyway, so I met this girl thur some mututal friends and asked her out to dinner. Then a few days later, she asked me when are going out to dinner again cuz she would like to pay. I said why don't we meet up next Thursday and then she said fine. Suddenly, she says that she wants to bring her friend along (a close girlfriend of hers).

So I guess this means that she is just interested in being friends? Maybe she doesn't know that I have romantic interest in her? How can I make this be known?

 

[Halo]

Actually this is a good opportunity for you. She is going to pay, and you will get to find out if the friend is hot! At any rate, make a point of giving the friend more attention. If the other girl does have any romantic interest in you, it will drive her crazy that her friend is getting attention and she'll regret bringing her along at all.

 

[-Zero_h0uR-]

Halo, I couldnt' have said it better myself.

Definitely go for it Ultra. At this point... with a free dinner, how can you possibly lose?

It's a complete win win situation. Just have fun with it.


-- Zero-

 

[Clint Eastwood]

I agree with these guys. How could you turn down a free dinner?

As far as this girl, she's a real b*tch for playing a game like this. It's definitely a bad sign.

SO, at dinner, ignore her and flirt with her friend. That's right. Don't feel bad about it either. B*tches will walk all over you and test you with crap like this, if you let them. Who needs a girl like this?

Ignore her as much as you can. When you have to talk to her, Make fun of her a lot . Bust on her clothes, her posture, anything you can. If you need ideas on this, let me know. If she asks you any questions, give her the most smart-a$$ answer you can think of. Never give her a direct answer. Don't touch her at all.

As far as her friend, Tease her a bit and have fun with her. Use some light kino on her. Be cool with her, but remain a Don Juan. Even if she's ugly, pay more attention to her than to the one who invited you out.

Keep in mind. This is going to be fun. I actually wish I could be in your shoes. I'd have so much fun with this. hehehehe

 

[Ultra Magnus]

So you guys are saying that this girl has absolute no interest in me huh? Or do you think she is just getting her friend to size me up?

Give all the attention to the other girl? What do I do at the end of the night? Don't make any plans?

Thanks!

 

[Clint Eastwood]

She may have interest in you Ultra, but it's too early to tell. Besides, her bringing a friend along is a big NO-NO. If her interest in you was really high, she wouldn't even consider bringing a friend around this early. She would want you all to herself and be afraid that her friend is going to steal you away from her before she gets you.

As far as the end of the night, I wouldn't make any other plans, unless you kind of like the other girl. Then, if you get a moment alone with her get the digits. You may lose them both this way, but at least you eliminated a stupid tester. Why go through her crap? I dated a girl once, a long time ago. She wanted to bring friends on our third date. This was as close to AFC as I've ever been. I thought it was ok for her to bring friends. I thought she wanted them to "size me up". WRONG! She just didn't have the decency to outright LJBF me, so she hoped I'd get the hint. It took a little while, but I finally got the hint.

If I were you, I'd look at this as a free dinner and a learning experience. If you don't hook up with either of these girls, so what. Move on and find someone better, who won't invite "friends" on your dates together. After you've been together for awhile, her inviting a friend is not so bad. But this early, it's not a good sign.

If my experience proves wrong in this matter, the least you'll do is raise her interest by being a challenge, and showing that you're not into her stupid games and tests.

 

[SideShow Bob]

I'm going to offer a different perspective on this... It's possible that her interest is high, but that she's looking at you as a longer term thing, and may even be seeking the validation and opinion of a friend...

If this is the case, or you suspect that the reason she's bringing a friend is to grade you, then I would recommend not pursuing her, especially as a long term bf/gf thing because she will be a handful.

Flirt with her friend, see if it drives her nuts.

 

[Quick]

She may have a little interest, and just not be too bright,but I totally agree with the other guys. Flirt with her friend all night and ignore the other one without being too obvious. Look the other girl in the eyes, ask her a lot of questions, tease her. Either you'll raise the interest level of the first girl and she won't ever bring someone along again, or you have fun and get a little bit of revenge during your last time of seeing this girl. Even if she doesn't like you, she'll feel jealous at not getting attention. It's a win-win. You play it by ear at the end of the night. Anything from calling an end early to the dinner and leaving, to a threesome could be appropiate.

 

[dontmindme]

u can't turn down a free meal.