Should I go for a 'more than friends' relationship with this girl?

ElStud

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Alright, well on Friday I met this girl named Lindsey at school and she seems pretty interested in me, however, only as a friend. I'm sexually interseted however I don't know if I should go for it. Main reason is this, she's got a boyfriend. How do I know? Well when she was talking I asked if she had a boyfriend and she told me she does and he goes to College and use to go here last year. As much as I would want to move things along with this girl, I just wouldn't want to break them up. But she did seem pretty interested in me when we talked, didn't give the number(Well, said she'd give it to me later), but she was definitely somewhat interested(Even going as far as saying "Hi Mike!" later that day). But I don't know if I want to move things out of the friend zone when she has a boyfriend. Secondly, if I was going to try and move things out of the friend zone onto a more sexual relation what could I do?
 

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so what if she has a man

The way shorty sees it is this

If a girl is gonna stray, she is gonna stray. PERIOD

might as well be with you
 

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ChrizZ said:
Well I actually did kino her a lot, but I don't know if that really changed anything, because after all she still said "I'll give it to you later". If she was REALLY interested and didn't have any doubts, she would've just gave it to me. How did I kino? Basically putting my hands on her shoulders, there this one time where I put my real high up on her leg. Maybe I should start doing heavier kino?
 

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If you hit on a girl with a boyfriend, you're asking for one of two things to happen:

1) You'll get toyed with
or
2) You'll pick up a hor.

If either of those two options is appealing to you, go for it.
 

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She'll do to you what she'll do to him.

If you proceed with this and she jumps over to your branch of interest protect your heart as its only going to be a fling before she drops you the same way she dropped her man for you.
 

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I personally would not go for it. Thats a huge rule of mine, no stealing gfs without good reason, i.e. he cheats, beats her, or is just a bad guy. BUT, if you do go for her, I'd say take your time. Progress very slowly, and keep up with subtle kino that can be justified if it's questioned. Don't make any moves until you are 100% sure she'd be cool with it.

Or kill her boyfriend and make it look like a mugging. Only thing better than crashing weddings is crashing funerals:D
 
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