Should I Go Ahead With This?

[SharinganUser]

This will probably sound crazy but I am serioiusly considering it.

The first phase of the plan is for me to drop 60lbs in the next 6-7 months. Another key component to my plan is to build my poker bankroll to 10k next summer. Last summer I turned $80 into about $1200, just playing in weekly local tournaments.

That's not the crazy part.

The crazy part is that once I have reached those goals, I plan on humping and dumping as many girls as I can until I feel feel better about myself. My parents have made it clear to me that "no woman can love you when you are fat," and that the only women interested in me are gold-diggers after our family fortune. The bitter irony is that I am broke most of the time and have almost none of my own money, which is why I am reading up on money management skills and trying to up my bankroll.

I've only been in one relationship before, it was short and she was seperated. Since then, I've only been able to have short flings with bar girls or be the other guy(there's probably no difference). I've finally accepted that relationships are not my thing and that I should just focus on humping and dumping as many women as possible in the next few years.

Basic plan: Get fit, get paid, get laid, dump their asses on the dirt road when i'm done.

 

[SandHawk]

It's your life, why the hell are you asking permission?

 

[SharinganUser]

It's your life, why the hell are you asking permission?

Not really asking permission. Just wondering if it's the wisest thing to do at this point and want to get some insight from people who don't do relationships (long or short ones).

 

[SandHawk]

First of all, you're too fat. So yes, you are going to have to lose that. But you're not going to lose it for some b*tch or because your mother tells you, but because YOU want to look into a mirror and not be disgusted by your own image. Don't ever change yourself for someone else, they're not worth it.

You're not going to lose 30 kg in 6 months. That's way too much than you can handle. Most experts say you should stick to 5 to 10% of your body weight a year, other you'll relapse real quickly. But go to the gym and get ripped anyway. It might take longer, but it'll happen.

As for money: Put a certain amount in as 'investment' and once you run out of investment money, stop playing poker. Should be obvious by then you suck at it. And if that never happens, enjoy the money you've earned with it.

Don't reel in golddiggers. Most of them want you to cash up before they grant you access to their poons. Why on earth waste your money on some spoilt littled brat when you can do awesome things with that money instead, liking travelling, buying yourself some new furniture, cool sunglasses or toilet bowl with integrated bidet? The only time I ever spend money on a girl if she's my girlfriend and I know she'll spend some cash on me too.

Instead, focus on becoming more fun. Get some new hobbies, get some travelling done, go socialize more often. Don't remember to talk to dudes too, because even though you want chicks, guys can introduce you to plenty of their friends and we all need to growl every now and then.

Now stop sitting on your ass and get to the gym!

 

[SharinganUser]

Thanks for the advice man.

I plan on "investing" about 10% of my bank roll each time I play. That should give me enough of a buffer incase I do screw up a lot. Last summer I played about 24 weekly tournies, and place in the money in about 20 times, and won 3 times. So I am not really worried about losing very often, even when my chips are down.

Right now I can only do body weight exercises, because I am on the road for the next 4 months. I've been backpacking every winter for the last four years and it has been very awesome, but it's meant I that make some sacrafices in terms of seeing a woman for more than two weeks.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Sand Hawk gave you $$$$ advice! Damn rep thing won't let me rep you right now bro.

Hopefully this doesn't come off as being a d-ick, but how are you going to lose weight effectively when 1) you don't have access to a gym and 2) you'll be sitting on your @ss playing poker pretty much all day?

You realize when your trying to transform your body that drastically that nutrition is nearly everything right? You have to be eating smaller meals every 2-3 hours to keep your metabolism up, drinking plenty of water (1/2 your bodyweight in ounces minimum), getting to bed on time and working out consistently.

I say this again not to be an @ss-hole, but only to put things in perspective and give you realistic expectations for your goals.

To be honest it sounds like you need to primarily work on your mindset, because your not happy with you. Its great that you want to change and have started to develop a plan of action, but you also want to set yourself up so that you have the highest chance to succeed with that plan.

Maybe I'm totally off-base, but I think its going to be VERY VERY hard to transform your body, while your on the road for 4 months with no access to the gym and no real nutrition plan at the moment.

If you want help with it, I'd be happy to get you started in the right direction.





PIMP

 

[SharinganUser]

Hopefully this doesn't come off as being a d-ick, but how are you going to lose weight effectively when 1) you don't have access to a gym and 2) you'll be sitting on your @ss playing poker pretty much all day?

That is a good question. I can't play poker for another for months because it's illegal in China. That's where I am right now. So I won't be sitting on my butt all day. I spend most of my time walking around seeing sites for about 4-8 hours a day, taking photographs, and video. I can also make use of the outdoor gyms they have here, but usually the only equipment I can use are the dip bars and pull up bars, and sometimes the sit up bench if it isn't being sat on by 3 guys having a smoke.

As for the diet thing, my choices for the time being are traditional chinese food, muslim food or kfc.

The other thing I am worried about is that even if I lose the weight, I have stretch marks. It's not cool, and I don't want to have to get surgery cut away loose skin or to get rid of the stretch marks. But I should've thought of that before I let myself go.

 

[AAAgent]

you don't need equipment to work out calisthenics.

do Pushups, situps, pullups if possibile, run, bodyweight squats, etc.

I used to do these all the time when i was a swimmer. Now that i stopped swimming i actually have the energy to lift weights.

 

[TizZle]

You sound bitter and unhappy. I applaud you for wanting to get fit. I workout 4x a week. Don't use women to get happy. Get your priorities straight.

 

[SharinganUser]

You sound bitter and unhappy. I applaud you for wanting to get fit. I workout 4x a week. Don't use women to get happy. Get your priorities straight.

I have a history of depression, so personal happiness has always been something I've struggled with. I was at a low point last year and I've made some progress since then, but I feel that I am not where I want to be.

One of the frustrating things is that when I was in my early 20's and much more athletic, it didn't seem to matter because the girls didn't like me anyway. I had no status, and no game.

I've just reached a point in my life where I have accepted that relationships just aren't my thing and that I should probably just focus on really getting my act together and just plow through as many chicks as possible when I do get it together. Screw dating.

 

[RSanders219]

Hey man, trust me I've met plenty of pretty cute girls that are into guys on the chubbier side. It's all about self confidence. But don't get me wrong there are also girls that will only date guys that have the build of a marine lol

 

[Buddha_Mind]

"Plowing through as many chicks as possible" is not going to be a sign of accomplishment--sometimes it'll just add to any mental baggage and confusion. Because there are lots of crazy bi.tches out there.

Take this from me man--I changed myself a while back in regards to health--focus on having a healthier body and so much else will fall into line. Alternate Cardio/Lifting for 4-5days a week. Take a few days off a week to rest -- you don't need anything but shoes to go running, or rent a bicycle and ride it a few hours. Anything that gets your heart rate up for over 25min will help. Eat healthy and natural.

Don't ask a bunch of random strangers what you should do for yourself.

If you want to be fit__be fit for you.
This will elevate your life 1000x higher than any woman could provide.
You won't believe how different you'll feel in 12 months if you start tomorrow (or today).

 

[TizZle]

I should probably just focus on really getting my act together and just plow through as many chicks as possible when I do get it together.

Once you start getting your act together and start accomplishing personal goals you will build confidence. Confidence is a trait that Women find attractive in Men.