Should I explain myself to this girl

JasK

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Hey guys, I was friendzoned by a girl about 3 months ago after which I went No Contact. She calls me 2 days ago asking to meet up with me. I tell her to meet me on friday evening. We meet up have some small talk and she keeps asking if I have a gf now to which I just smiled.

About 15 minutes into the meet, I get a phone call from and had to leave immediately. While I was leaving, she asked me again if I had a gf now, to which I replied: I did ask a girl out 3 months ago but she wasn't interested (obv. referring to her) and smiled and left. Now she didn't get the joke and actually thinks I was rejected by someone else.

Should I clarify (that I was referring to her) coz it kind of puts me in a bad light and I dont want that. She was showing a lot of interest before this.

Edit: Sorry didn't introduce myself: Long time lurker and a big fan of the DJ bible and this site :)
 

Fly By Night

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She's an idiot... And I wouldn't clarify it to her because she is already showing you that her interest in you is coming back up. Saying that it was her will probably only backfire for you since she will assume that other girls are not finding you attractive. The ball is in your court. Try again or next it.
 

VladPatton

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No explanation needed, sometimes people show their value by how well they understand social interaction. See where it takes you, carry on.
 

JasK

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I was thinking of going the same way, just needed some validation I guess. Thanks a lot guys :)
 

omega05

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Shoulda said you were taking applications. Do you plan to see her again? What is your next step Don Juan?
 

JasK

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She's already interested and wants to meet again. We'll see how it goes although Im pretty sure it'll end well but even if it doesn't, Its not like I have something to lose here.
 
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