Should I build more rapport or ask her out?

the_stig

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One of my co-workers had a few friends come visit her the other day, and as they were leaving, she asked if I thought one of them was cute. I said yes, so she went over and gave her my number. She (HB7) texted a few days later and it went like this:

HER: Hey it's Sarah the chick you thought was cute on Monday
ME: Lol.. what's goin on
HER: Not much you?
ME: Just ran 5 miles and it's 103 degrees out. Whew.
HER: Oh wow drink lots of water!
ME: For sure. Hope you're staying cool. It was our hottest day in 23 years
HER: I'm at the pool tanning lol
ME: Haha prob burnt to a crisp by now
HER: Lol nope


So the ice has been broken between us. My question is: do I text her a little more to build rapport, or straight up ask her out? Was thinking of something like "hey- taking my puppy for a walk around the lakes Saturday, you should join us".

Any suggestions?
 

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Why don't you just call her and ask her that?
 

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the_stig said:
One of my co-workers had a few friends come visit her the other day, and as they were leaving, she asked if I thought one of them was cute. I said yes, so she went over and gave her my number. She (HB7) texted a few days later and it went like this:

HER: Hey it's Sarah the chick you thought was cute on Monday
ME: Lol.. what's goin on
HER: Not much you?
ME: Just ran 5 miles and it's 103 degrees out. Whew.
HER: Oh wow drink lots of water!
ME: For sure. Hope you're staying cool. It was our hottest day in 23 years
HER: I'm at the pool tanning lol
ME: Haha prob burnt to a crisp by now
HER: Lol nope
That's more than enough rapport. You're already a friend of her friend, right? That's all the rapport you need.

So the ice has been broken between us. My question is: do I text her a little more to build rapport, or straight up ask her out? Was thinking of something like "hey- taking my puppy for a walk around the lakes Saturday, you should join us".

Any suggestions?
I'd rather you take her for a drink. But I think that works.

You're set. Pull the trigger.
 

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CALL don't ******ing text. I learned that the hard way.
 

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It's amazing how things are just given to some guys.

I would kill for an opportunity like this.

Ask her out already.
 

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Maxtro said:
It's amazing how things are just given to some guys.

I would kill for an opportunity like this.

Ask her out already.
And he still had to ask! Ha ha
 

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Ok ok, but work the iron while it is hot. Most problems guys have are to do with timming. Go get her now.
 

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And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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