Should I Ask Her To Come Of The Dating Site??

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So guys I met this chick off a dating site.. she is a hb7great body.. and she is a filthy sllut in the bedroom. .

Anyhow I have no intentions of getting into a LTR with her.. not a chance..

She is straight up fcuk buddy material. . Been banging her just over a month now.

Here is the thing.. she is still on the dating site where I met her..


Should I ask her to come off?


Here are my concerns..

01. She may end up meeting some other dude off there, and I wont be able to bang her no more...

02. Or she could end up banging some other dudes off there, and end up giving me some std


Would you expect a chick in this type of situation to come off the dating site?


Her intereste level is very high, and keeps telling me how much she likes me.. so why she still on dating site?


I just wana keep her around as a plate... I have two other plates too
 

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soulforge said:
So guys I met this chick off a dating site.. she is a hb7great body.. and she is a filthy sllut in the bedroom. .

Anyhow I have no intentions of getting into a LTR with her.. not a chance..

She is straight up fcuk buddy material. . Been banging her just over a month now.

Here is the thing.. she is still on the dating site where I met her..


Should I ask her to come off?


Here are my concerns..

01. She may end up meeting some other dude off there, and I wont be able to bang her no more...

02. Or she could end up banging some other dudes off there, and end up giving me some std


Would you expect a chick in this type of situation to come off the dating site?


Her intereste level is very high, and keeps telling me how much she likes me.. so why she still on dating site?


I just wana keep her around as a plate... I have two other plates too
Your contradicting yourself a little bit in your post. You dont want a relationship with her, just as a fvck buddy however you want her to come off the dating site and not fvck around with other guys. Thats understandable, you want her to be your own little play thing but dont tell her to come off it because then shes going to "feel" like your trying to strap her down. The way you make her come off of that site is by banging her good AND have her Interest level so high that she wants to see a lot more of you and a lot less of any other guy. Dont pay attention to what she says and how much she likes you, let her show you by her actions, for example (calling you all the time, Sending you random "hey hehe" type texts, wanting to see you more & more etc...) basically trying to strap you down. Then you can control the situation and she will voluntarily only want to hook up with you. If it were to get to that point however, she's going to want to start some kind of LTR and then thats a whole different monster to think about.
 

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In2theGame said:
Your contradicting yourself a little bit in your post. You dont want a relationship with her, just as a fvck buddy however you want her to come off the dating site and not fvck around with other guys. Thats understandable, you want her to be your own little play thing but dont tell her to come off it because then shes going to "feel" like your trying to strap her down. The way you make her come off of that site is by banging her good AND have her Interest level so high that she wants to see a lot more of you and a lot less of any other guy. Dont pay attention to what she says and how much she likes you, let her show you by her actions, for example (calling you all the time, Sending you random "hey hehe" type texts, wanting to see you more & more etc...) basically trying to strap you down. Then you can control the situation and she will voluntarily only want to hook up with you. If it were to get to that point however, she's going to want to start some kind of LTR and then thats a whole different monster to think about.

A LTR with this chick is out of the question.. she fuks good tho.. and great body..

Her interest level is high... but.. this chick loves sex.. and could quite easily swing to some other dude off the dating site..

I would like to keep her around as my plaything.. I think you could be right. . Its best if she came off on her own accord..

But I doubt she will come off, till I give her some sign of maybe a relationship. . But that is something that will never happen
 

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You want to have your cake and eat it too, she's not going to do that. Without exclusivity, she's not going to give up her options just because you're insecure about her banging another guy, which chances are she might be.
 

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Mr Wright said:
You want to have your cake and eat it too, she's not going to do that. Without exclusivity, she's not going to give up her options just because you're insecure about her banging another guy, which chances are she might be.


I suppose you are right.. chances are this chick will bang someone else, and could be a player.. either way, I have to accept, if she does branch swing, then so be it.. no loss to me, as she is not ltr material. .


I suppose I best make the most of it.. have some 3sums, then let this chick go.. if she finds some other dude
 

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Maybe the last dude asked her to do the same and now she's banging you. You like that she's easy but don't want her to be easy for anyone else. Not much point in locking down low hanging fruit.
 

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Thorninmyside said:
Maybe the last dude asked her to do the same and now she's banging you. You like that she's easy but don't want her to be easy for anyone else. Not much point in locking down low hanging fruit.

Your right.. this chick is not worth locking down.. best leave things as they are x
 

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Albatross953 said:
Wrap up brother, no exceptions.

Yeh here is the problem. . I have been banging this chick for over a month, and stopped using condoms. . Could be serious health risk, situation this????
 

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Are you f**king stupid? Why on earth would you stop using condoms?
 

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soulforge said:
Yeh here is the problem. . I have been banging this chick for over a month, and stopped using condoms. . Could be serious health risk, situation this????
You aren't even mutually exclusive and you're riding bareback

Mate - that's seriously messed up!!
 

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soulforge said:
Yeh here is the problem. . I have been banging this chick for over a month, and stopped using condoms. . Could be serious health risk, situation this????
What the **** is wrong you?

Wear a condom, dude.

Also, you have 2-3 other chicks that you're seeing yet do not want her to have a chance to **** other guys? Really, man? Seriously? No one respects a hypocrite.

Do you see how stupid your OP is?
 

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I think you really like her IMO...and are embarrassed to say so....otherwise u wouldn't care....you can be exclusive or not with her...no in between.....but asking a fb to get off a dating site is silly...
 

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yea man, you cannot ask her to come off a dating site if she is just your fvck buddy. I have the exact same situation with a current plate EXCEPT I do not want to date her and I couldn't care less if she is on a dating site. Honestly, I wouldn't mind if someone took her off my hands. I think you like her more than you are letting on.
 

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Stop being so dam insecure.

Either that or chain her up in your basement...."it puts the lotion on its skin, or else it gets the hose again"
 

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I never worry about that cause after I lay them out they won't be thinking about anyone else unless I'm unavailable for a while...that beast is real, lol
 
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just have fun with her while it lasts

and yeah, watch it with the no condoms stuff, ur just asking for it

trust us, after awhile, you'll offer to pay for her dating site fees just to be rid of her

best of luck
 

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Don't fvck her. Simple.
 

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Her intereste level is very high, and keeps telling me how much she likes me.. so why she
 
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