Hey DJ's.
Well the title pretty much says it all... I go to a "exclusive" private boys only school in Australia...as in the type in which we are forced to wear khaki short shorts and knee high socks in summer. But that’s not really the cause of the problem.
The big deal breaker for me is the lack of girls! Now to those who will just tell me to grow some balls and go find some, for me at least, it’s not entirely that simple. See I moved to this super conservative school in year 9, and I originally hated it, and was convinced I could get back home, and stay with a friend or some other silly scheme. Anyway back in the real world, I totally left my social standing in my new school to die in a hole, as I was still concerned with my old friends. Needless to say, it left me with little choice in terms of a new group. So I finally found a one, pretty much full of the most immature and retarded people on the planet, and I know this might shock you but my new “buddies” were not exactly hits with the women.
The reason I bring that up is that there is a partnered school to ours, full of girls, which is like the mirror image of my school, in terms of social organization that is. For instance each group of guys will have an associated group of girls, and this is the basis through which all guys get with girls. So for me, I had 0 social status and therefore, I had, and still do have 0 contact with girls.
I have made a decision to give up on the girl’s school, as the social connections are so complex now, and I have no idea about who is who. Plus, the less I can have to do with the stuck up and conservative upper class – of which I am apparently part of…. The better.
Anyway, now all the boring back story is out of the way, my question is how am I supposed to meet girls? As far as I am aware, my appearance is not an issue, and neither is my fitness, as I play three sports, - American football being one of them (in fact I just got selected first string WR for my state) which is really cool here in Australia, and has defs helped me to build up decent respect in my school… but in a smallish city, in which everyone my age (17) seems to be engrossed in their social groups, it has come to me as a bit of a shock, but I seem to be beached
Any suggestions on how to start building some bridges off of my very boring and frustrating island would be greatly appreciated.
Cheers, and thanks 4 reading.
Well the title pretty much says it all... I go to a "exclusive" private boys only school in Australia...as in the type in which we are forced to wear khaki short shorts and knee high socks in summer. But that’s not really the cause of the problem.
The big deal breaker for me is the lack of girls! Now to those who will just tell me to grow some balls and go find some, for me at least, it’s not entirely that simple. See I moved to this super conservative school in year 9, and I originally hated it, and was convinced I could get back home, and stay with a friend or some other silly scheme. Anyway back in the real world, I totally left my social standing in my new school to die in a hole, as I was still concerned with my old friends. Needless to say, it left me with little choice in terms of a new group. So I finally found a one, pretty much full of the most immature and retarded people on the planet, and I know this might shock you but my new “buddies” were not exactly hits with the women.
The reason I bring that up is that there is a partnered school to ours, full of girls, which is like the mirror image of my school, in terms of social organization that is. For instance each group of guys will have an associated group of girls, and this is the basis through which all guys get with girls. So for me, I had 0 social status and therefore, I had, and still do have 0 contact with girls.
I have made a decision to give up on the girl’s school, as the social connections are so complex now, and I have no idea about who is who. Plus, the less I can have to do with the stuck up and conservative upper class – of which I am apparently part of…. The better.
Anyway, now all the boring back story is out of the way, my question is how am I supposed to meet girls? As far as I am aware, my appearance is not an issue, and neither is my fitness, as I play three sports, - American football being one of them (in fact I just got selected first string WR for my state) which is really cool here in Australia, and has defs helped me to build up decent respect in my school… but in a smallish city, in which everyone my age (17) seems to be engrossed in their social groups, it has come to me as a bit of a shock, but I seem to be beached
Any suggestions on how to start building some bridges off of my very boring and frustrating island would be greatly appreciated.
Cheers, and thanks 4 reading.