CHALENGE GUY
Senior Don Juan
I realized something lately.
As far as I can remember, I always thought being suave and confident were the key, and I was right. But I was oblivious of an important caveat, a warning that was probably here the whole time, but somehow I disregarded it because i didn’t have time to fiddle with details : I just wanted to get laid and have a girlfriend.
Anyway.. now I understand.
Now I know what one must always hold on to as he is desperately trying to become the great catch… and here it is : be yourself and SHINE.
But stay with me… I’m not telling you " just be yourself ". We all know this harsassing refrain by heart, and most of the time it’s sung by hideous chicks, eternal bachelors and your caring mom. Wanna know the defenition if insanity ? Always doing the same thing and expecting a different result. The " just be yourself " phrase is garbage.
What I’m telling you is this : rise and shine.
You love comic books and you feel that it’s gonna turn off potential mates ? Who cares… be confident about it and SHINE, show the world who you are with utter assertiveness. You shouldn’t be afraid of what you are.
You’re a nerd and you love physics? SHINE.
You love that ragged sweat shirt ? Wear it and shine.
You hate bars but you stay with your friends anyway because.. " you know… I won’t get laid if I stay home all night… " Well my friend, let me tell you something : you don’t need these places. Shine and people will be attracted to you because you're real, not because you got a new haircut or because you dance well. This is all flashy garbage, and deep down we all know it.
Be real. Stand up for what you think is right and express yourself.
Stop tryin to proove yourself. SHINE.
Confidence isn’t about projecting an image of decisiveness or standing tall with your protruding chest. Confidence is knowing yourself and accepting it. Confidence is embracing what is still virginal about your dreams, values… who you are.
I’m not asking you to "just be yourself", I’m asking you to SHINE.
The world is full of expert don juans. But, hey, there’s only one YOU in the world. Make sure it shines bright.
Expert don juans… some women will fall for them. Others won’t. Other’s are waiting for a certain shade of light : yours. You don’t need all the women in the world. When the real thing happens, one women is almost too much.
So while you make sure you stick to the basic principles, remember that authenticity will be unbeatable and the right woman will appear.
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Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.
- Roosevelt
Heretics shall perish. Please read the Bible. It is is a whole vast world of wisdom, beauty, and moral truth.
THE DJ BIBLE
[This message has been edited by CHALENGE GUY (edited 08-21-2001).]
As far as I can remember, I always thought being suave and confident were the key, and I was right. But I was oblivious of an important caveat, a warning that was probably here the whole time, but somehow I disregarded it because i didn’t have time to fiddle with details : I just wanted to get laid and have a girlfriend.
Anyway.. now I understand.
Now I know what one must always hold on to as he is desperately trying to become the great catch… and here it is : be yourself and SHINE.
But stay with me… I’m not telling you " just be yourself ". We all know this harsassing refrain by heart, and most of the time it’s sung by hideous chicks, eternal bachelors and your caring mom. Wanna know the defenition if insanity ? Always doing the same thing and expecting a different result. The " just be yourself " phrase is garbage.
What I’m telling you is this : rise and shine.
You love comic books and you feel that it’s gonna turn off potential mates ? Who cares… be confident about it and SHINE, show the world who you are with utter assertiveness. You shouldn’t be afraid of what you are.
You’re a nerd and you love physics? SHINE.
You love that ragged sweat shirt ? Wear it and shine.
You hate bars but you stay with your friends anyway because.. " you know… I won’t get laid if I stay home all night… " Well my friend, let me tell you something : you don’t need these places. Shine and people will be attracted to you because you're real, not because you got a new haircut or because you dance well. This is all flashy garbage, and deep down we all know it.
Be real. Stand up for what you think is right and express yourself.
Stop tryin to proove yourself. SHINE.
Confidence isn’t about projecting an image of decisiveness or standing tall with your protruding chest. Confidence is knowing yourself and accepting it. Confidence is embracing what is still virginal about your dreams, values… who you are.
I’m not asking you to "just be yourself", I’m asking you to SHINE.
The world is full of expert don juans. But, hey, there’s only one YOU in the world. Make sure it shines bright.
Expert don juans… some women will fall for them. Others won’t. Other’s are waiting for a certain shade of light : yours. You don’t need all the women in the world. When the real thing happens, one women is almost too much.
So while you make sure you stick to the basic principles, remember that authenticity will be unbeatable and the right woman will appear.
------------------
Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.
- Roosevelt
Heretics shall perish. Please read the Bible. It is is a whole vast world of wisdom, beauty, and moral truth.
THE DJ BIBLE
[This message has been edited by CHALENGE GUY (edited 08-21-2001).]