She's sexy but she's BORING!

S. Pryor

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I know every man has probably encountered this problem at least once in their life. The biggest example I've had of this was about two years ago at my school(not high school). My friend was talking to this girl and I came over and start talking to her too. This girl was mad sexy, like if she was an attraction in Las Vegas she would have "skeet skeet skeet" in neon lights glowing on her forehead. Like the girl had "fuck" and "me" tattooed on her thighs. So in the beginning her and I were talking and it was cool. It's those guys that are really into cold reading saying "you have a great energy about you" and she did. It was going good for a few weeks and then we started having "real" conversations. I listened to this girl and about three seconds in it started sounding like an Alanis Morissette record. If I had to listen to a snippet of her album I'd jump out of a fucking window. It was like trying to stuff your mouth with oatmeal, after a while your jaws will say "man **** this ****".

I found myself trying to talk to this girl but the more I asked her questions, and her eyes lit up, the more miserable it became. It's great when a girls eyes light up but she was boring me to tears. The thing is though man she seemed like she'd be a fun person to be around and she definitely wasn't a shy or "dull" person. Throughout the conversation I just kept wanting the topic to come back to me even though I know that's kinda wrong. I don't wanna say I wasted my time listening to her but FUCK!! Anyways, the time I met her she was a little over eight months pregnant and I managed to see her and her baby before she moved away. Anybody else have stories dealing with sexy yet boring women?
 

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If she seemed like she would be fun being around then why are you spending all that precious time talking to her instead of doing other more interesting stuff with her?

Spend the time doing things with her that you have things to dominate the conversation about. But, hey. Aren't we men always complaining about having to put in effort to maintain the conversation? feel lucky that she puts in the 90% effort for conversation instead of you. Cheers.

P.S i would actually say start seeing a few other girls to keep yourself more excited about life, but i worry that you might complain that these other girls are boring too.
 

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First of all, this was two years ago. And second she was EIGHT MONTHS PREGNANT. Besides, she wasn't even a student there. Her mom was and she just tagged along some days. You're trying to frame it like I'm saying women are boring or I'd just be complaining about **** all the time. I'm not saying that at all Mr. wicked.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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All women are stupid, most are boring, and they only are good for one thing... I'll let you figure out what that is on your own.
 

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Lol this is funny. First off you gotta know what you want from these girls know wat im sayin. You seemed like you was confused wit it, one second you talkin like you wanna **** her and next minute you being all friendly wit her. Man i'm new to this site and the terms and stuff but its like this, when you meet the girl you gotta know wat u want from yall interaction and it has to be meaningfully specific my dude. What that means is do you want head do you want sex do you want a friend do you want a gf etc and then you have to lead her towards that end. So when she starts trying to talk bout that otha "real" convo stuff just steer the convo back towards that sexual **** kno wat im talkin bout. And no more of this weeks stuff man if you wanna get it on wit a chick its best to get it while its hot within the first 4 days or so.
 

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katatonia said:
All women are stupid, most are boring, and they only are good for one thing... I'll let you figure out what that is on your own.


Real talk, you guys be caught up too much on sex man. I done caught alot of thangs out there and I've realized it's not really about the sex man its more about the sport and challenge. Don't let that P have too much power over you man. Nothing against you my dude but you sound bitter when you say things like what you said. Women are intelligent, fascinating creatures bro but they are a product of the game you (a man) puts into them. So if you find yourself coming across stupid boring girls that are only good for one thing then that says one of two things: this is the type of woman you attract or you are meeting ya girls in the wrong places.
 

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jdollar it sounds like you're a student of Mr. Tariq Nasheed. I didn't really have the means of just taking her anywhere I wanted to at the time and she had a boyfriend she said was crazy. So I dunno where the **** could have really gone y'know. I wanted to smash but anytime you here "my boyfriend is crazy" in any context you should stay the **** away. This little story was just my example of a chick being attractive but boring. In essence it wasn't really the main main thing I was asking about, if that makes sense.
 

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I dated a boring low talker once. Her conversations, when I could here them, where about nothing of any significance. I found nothing about her appealing besides her great tits and big round ass and busting nuts on both of them. But when I really took the time to listen to her, I realized she had a ton of freaking issues, complete headcase. I went back to not listening and just screwing her every time she came over. After a while she asked to be in a relationship and I put her in the friendzone. She still calls to mumbles at me every now and then but I've moved on and I don't answer the phone for her anymore. If she's boring, screw her and move on, or just move on.
 
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