She's getting fat....

[JesusJones]

If I wanted a girlfriend I wanted one who had high interest in me and would be a caring giving person Plus be half decent looking...

Big call right? Left waiting on that for a while.....gave up looking for a "decent one", then kind of just stumbled on one...

Great girl, homely and caring was in shape when we met.....

Fast forward a few years later
...granted anyone can put on a few pounds.....however it's starting to show around her face. I'm embarrassed by it....

The excuse is she's working a lot

Seems to need a lot of sleep

I need less sleep and am in pristine condition.

How to confront? Gone off her sexually but a great girl

 

[marmel75]

She needs to have her thyroid checked...tired all the time and weight gain is a classic low thyroid symptom. It's also far more prevalent in women than in men.

 

[wifehunter]

When chicks think they can eat as much as they want...they usually have deeper issues than being fat.

In most cases, not all, fatness can be a red flag indicating that ugly entitlement demon.

Or, on the otherhand she could be depressed and using food to feel better. In this case, she may need encouragement, to NOT overstuff herself.