She's cool, but a virgin, and I don't like waiting

[WORKEROUTER]

So I went out with this girl and we hit it off alright. Ended up at her place a couple more times, where we made out and such.

Last time we were doing this, she was getting really horny, as was I, and she started going at me dry again (which sucks unless it actually leads to sex). Despite me knowing she's a virgin, I go in for the kill and try to remove her panties, but she resists. So I go on with the whole make-out thing, frustrated I haven't banged her yet (despite it only being a couple weeks).

Curious as to her views about sex, and personally wondering if I'll ever actually be able to have sex with this broad, I ask her what she thinks about sex and if there were any personal reasons why she's still a virgin. She claimed she doesn't want a kid and that the whole birth control thing brings in too many complications, and that she doesn't like how it messes with her system. Well, I told her how one can just slap on a condom (didn't get 'em off).

Anyway, what am I to think about this? She's a cool girl, not slutty (something I do appreciate), but at the same time, I do want to have sex.

Should I just ignore bringing it up and wait until she brings it up?
Also, in terms of oral, I doubt she's done that either. She's comfortable with her hands but what should I do in order for her to go down on me? I don't feel comfortable just blatantly stating it, and nor do I feel she would be comfortable with that either.

 

[rockstar88]

do the girl a favor and leave her alone. shes a virgin dont **** up her mind just cause you cant control your little hormones.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Originally posted by rockstar88
do the girl a favor and leave her alone. shes a virgin dont **** up her mind just cause you cant control your little hormones.

Okay, Ms. Lady.

 

[Wiesman44]

if you like this girl, and it develops into something more than just dating, she should give in. But I bet you she's more conservative about sex, and won't do it until she's in a relationship. So u have to make a choice.

 

[dipset_mafia]

it's best not to ask her about her "personal reasons" why she isn't having sex.. no matter what her perception of why she isn't having sex - it doesn't really matter at all - because these are barriers that you can and will overcome anyway... barring the "i'm saving it for marriage".. but let her bring that one up!...

As far as bringing it up.. I wouldn't.. what you need to do is finger bang this chick until she is gyving for your c0ck.. you don't need to take her panties off.. just slide your fingers underneath -- eventually she won't be able to take it... she'll make the brith control appointment, she'll get birth control pills (if she's smart).. and she'll want to give it up to you. So play your cards, keep her interested, and have patience.. But HEY, if you don't wanna wait for it.. then don't wait for it!..

I just devirginized a 20 year old HB9 on saturday... It took a good.. month or so.. but it was WORTH IT!

keep at it!

 

[djbr]

Bail.

Virgins sucks!

hehehe

 

[lets_do_this]

Originally posted by djbr
Bail.

Virgins sucks!

hehehe

Oh come on! Some one's gotta devirginize these girls.

 

[SAYNO]

Oh yea one other thing....

Just cuz she says she's a virgin doesn't mean that she really is.

Doesn't really matter anyway as long as you get to bust a nut right?


Sayno'

 

[A-Unit]

Re:

This is walking a fineline between morals and hormones. On the one hand, hot virgins are ALWAYS a tempting treat to the willing guy. On the other hand, I respect virgins for their ability to wait, ESPECIALLY if she's waiting for marriage.

If she's NOT waiting for marriage AND you like her enough just based on who she is, sex will come around. Why?

Because, if the relationship progresses, it's worth you're time, you're having fun WITHOUT sex, then sex WILL happen, and you can be her good first (alot of girl's don't have good first, in fact, most don't).

There's a few types of 'virgins'.

1. Those waiting til marriage (usually religious, or very high-class)
2. Those waiting for the right guy or Mr. Right now.
3. Born-again virgins who are reformed slutz.

To me, how one handles such situations speaks of your character. Whenever I've encountered options at cheating, it wasn't so much the lost chance, or getting back at anyone, it was what it would to me and how I would feel. Sure, women can be bytches, sure they do cheat, but two wrongs don't make a right, and truely, it rots the abuser to the core.

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In my opinion your 2 options from me are...

1. If you dig her and the relationship, then sex WILL or WON'T happen. It will come in time. Sure you'll be tempted ALL the time, but also take it as a chance to learn how to turn her buttons so hot that SHE wants sex. That's talent. I personally don't rush sex. I enjoy a girl's thongs, the curves in her azz, the way she looks in certain light, under black lights or candle light, the taste of her skin. Just seeing her face and the emotions crawling and moaning in her. Those are some of my favorite things. Alas, that's me, but I have it so that most girls want sex as a RELEASE. You can learn and make her want it.

2. Move on. Personally, if she's very into her virginity, which I'd rather see more girls do, let her be. Let her be dumb and bang some other bytch. I get these gross visions of "Kids" and Casper and that whole crew de-virginizing girls, spreading disease and corruption when I see girls be manipulated and banged.

SURE, we can say "Well they will bang some other dude anyways." Maybe they will, but this gets back at my earlier statements on BEING a man, and BEING a better MAN, and changing the archetype OF a man. Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

And character is what you do when nobody is looking. I've never had a virgin, and if I did, and cared for her enough, I'd be with her. Not just fvck and walk.



A-Unit

 

[DonJuanMonk]

I think you need to make her feel more comfortable and build more rapport with her before you dive in. Talking about sex or forcing is not going to make it any easier, I would just keep being intimate and being really gentle, and remember this girls ALWAYS have control when to give sex and the direction of the relationship It's sad but true. The key thing is to never give in and just be a man. Hope this helps.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Sure we can have some fun withou sex, but honestly, we don't really have much in common. Yeah, she's a cool girl and all, but our hobbies/interests are totally different.

Sure, she digs me because I'm attractive and have a great body and can pleasure her like hell, but that's not enough to let her give it to me yet.

 

[Shiftkey]

In my experience with girls like this, talking about sex only makes it harder to fvck them. This is tough for me because I LOVE talking about sex, and I'm great at making sexually confident women wet by talking about sex. The best advise I can give you is to be patient and expect to wait at least a month or two before fvcking her.

 

[bbestar]

Please don't **** my mom before im born

Beware because when I become 20 alpha + in the military and you are 50...Don't think i can't reach you..
I will find you.. There won't be an investigation.. You would just disappear and thats a promise

- unborn future child

 

[pimpdatass]

Virgins are terrible in bed...its not even worth it unless you want a relationship.