"She'll call me when she has time"

[My Name is Nobody]

Ok I met another girl the other day and we had lunch. Things went well I think.

At the end of the lunch I gave her a kiss on the cheek and went on with my business.

I made a big mistake calling her again too soon to ask her to hang out later that night.

She said she was busy and she told me "she'll call me, but when she has time".

Does this mean I should never call her again if she never does indeed call me back?

Thanks.

 

[Interceptor]

Wait for her to call. Do not initate contact for at least 7 days, man. If she shows interest then, try to set up a date with her on YOUR terms. Your job now is to figure out her Interest Level, nothing more. She will flake or she will counteroffer, or she will jump at the chance to be with you.
Stay positive, stay motivated, stay optimistic.
But be mentally and emotionally prepared for the worst.
Remember, above all else....YOU CANNOT "FORCE" ATTRACTION. It's either there or it's not. Sure, you can increase or decrease interest level, but women with Low IL are IMHO not worth it.

Sorry to say, but this is not High IL behavior. Be prepared for flakiness and rejection, and KEEP AFTER OTHER WOMEN. At the very least initiate interactions with other women even if you're not interested in them.
Do not sit around waiting for her call.
Do not.

DON'T.

Again, do not sit around waiting for her to call you.
Let this statement go through your head again and agan.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Do NOT call her ever - unless she initiates!!!! Time is the ONLY thing that she has and it is the ONLY thing that she has control over!!!

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Do NOT call her ever - unless she initiates!!!! Time is the ONLY thing that she has and it is the ONLY thing that she has control over!!!

Pure genius. Love that quote, it will go into my toolbox under quotes to live by.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

WRONG FOOLS!

I called her and she is meeting me at 8pm at a restaurant right next to my house!!!

HAHAHA you guys were wrong! She agreed to meet me tonight even though
I DID NOT listen to you. If I listened id be sitting home alone tonight!


So there is now a GOOD chance I can get her back to my place tonight. Meeting at 8pm. I can walk to the restaurant from my house.

Now hopefully she shows up.. and this woman is HOT!!! YEEE HAA!! I cant believe she agreed to meet me.,


What do you guys have to say now?

Bunch of know it alls my ass.

Some Girls like guys who PURSUE not wait around like p-ssies!

 

[My Name is Nobody]

BUMP

Why did this work when everyone was telling me NOT to call her? I am glad I decided to call her BEFORE I read the answers in this thread, or else i would have listened and had a date with my hand tonight.



Now I have a date at 8 pm and chance to get laid.

Why did this work when everyone was saying NONO dont call!

 

[backbreaker]

WRONG FOOLS!

I called her and she is meeting me at 8pm at a restaurant right next to my house!!!

HAHAHA you guys were wrong! She agreed to meet me tonight even though
I DID NOT listen to you. If I listened id be sitting home alone tonight!


So there is now a GOOD chance I can get her back to my place tonight. Meeting at 8pm. I can walk to the restaurant from my house.

Now hopefully she shows up.. and this woman is HOT!!! YEEE HAA!! I cant believe she agreed to meet me.,


What do you guys have to say now?

Bunch of know it alls my ass.

Some Girls like guys who PURSUE not wait around like p-ssies!

ever hear of winning the battle but loosing the war?

Given your response.. you are defaintly loosing the war

 

[My Name is Nobody]

ever hear of winning the battle but loosing the war?

Given your response.. you are defaintly loosing the war

How am I losing?

She thinks I am a good looking guy and she agreed to meet up and have drinks with me tonight.

Doesn't sound like losing to me. Sounds like you're jealous.

 

[FutureSpartan]

Good for you Nobody.

Don't listen to all these stupid chick rules..."wait for her to call" "call her back in 7.345 days"

This is the BS that they feed chicks in Cosmo.

You're the man...you will call whenever you damn well feel like it. If she ditches or rejects you cause you called her "too soon" it was her lack of interest in you to begin with, nothing else.

If the object of her desires called her the next day she would not be like "oh he should have waited 3.45 days to contact, what a desperate pathetic loser!"

More like, "omg i cant believe he called me!!!111"

This is why most guys fail, they overcomplicate things to the point where they play these dumb games and then end up losing the girl to someone who actually had the BALLS and initiative to after what he wanted.

 

[IM0001]

Just pray she shows up lol. If you have a good time, then great.

If you screw it up or she flakes on you, don't expect anyone's help here again.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I will be at the Restaurant waiting for her tonight. I don't think she will flake.

She told me I am a very handsome man and she was touching my leg alot when we had lunch.

She is an older woman, but she is beautiful. Looks very very young.

If she doesnt show up I will man up and admit it.

But I will keep you guys updated.

I have just disproved the dont call for 7 days BS.

I think it OK to call ONCE... but dont call 5 FUKKIN times a day like most AFCs do.

I work with a woman who says she met a guy and gave him her phone number. He then proceeded to call her 7 TIMES because she didnt pick up the phone.

God some guys are friggin nuts.

I called her once, thats it, she answered, and the date is on,

The great thing about this is I had another date planned tonight, and she flaked out on me saying she is "sick"... so I ended up calling this girl and she accepted... oh its so nice to have a backup!

 

[Raikojo17]

WRONG FOOLS!

I called her and she is meeting me at 8pm at a restaurant right next to my house!!!

HAHAHA you guys were wrong! She agreed to meet me tonight even though
I DID NOT listen to you. If I listened id be sitting home alone tonight!


So there is now a GOOD chance I can get her back to my place tonight. Meeting at 8pm. I can walk to the restaurant from my house.

Now hopefully she shows up.. and this woman is HOT!!! YEEE HAA!! I cant believe she agreed to meet me.,


What do you guys have to say now?

Bunch of know it alls my ass.

Some Girls like guys who PURSUE not wait around like p-ssies!

i agree with you nobody. i dont believe in playing all these dumb games to get women's interest. if you have to go through all that then she didnt like you much to begin with.

be a man and call when you want and when YOU have time. dont sit and wait for her like her lost dog. doing this all day will more than likely leave you alone. believe it or not, but sitting around waiting for her to call is more desperate behavior than just taking the initiative and calling her.

sometimes you just have to look past all the DJ stuff and go with what your gut instincts are telling you. because most times they are right.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

i agree with you nobody. i dont believe in playing all these dumb games to get women's interest. if you have to go through all that then she didnt like you much to begin with.

be a man and call when you want and when YOU have time. dont sit and wait for her like her lost dog. doing this all day will more than likely leave you alone. believe it or not, but sitting around waiting for her to call is more desperate behavior than just taking the initiative and calling her.

sometimes you just have to look past all the DJ stuff and go with what your gut instincts are telling you. because most times they are right.

Agreed.

While we are waiting 7 days to contact the girl, she is busy banging other guys who DIDNT wait 7 days to call her.

Some girls are shy guys. Just go for it, if she rejects you then you know for sure and you move on.

Cant wait till 8pm I have a good feeling tonight. I keep remembering her feeling up my leg when we had lunch.

I think I'll take her on a nice walk after we eat or if we eat and lay a kiss on her and invite her back to my place.

 

[HaremMasterThomas]

I hope you are sarging other hot babes and fvcking them, this will get your mind off that one girl, then she might phone you out of the blue, then it is time to think about her again.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I hope you are sarging other hot babes and fvcking them, this will get your mind off that one girl, then she might phone you out of the blue, then it is time to think about her again.

hell yeah man this is what makes my story so great!

I had a date with a hot babe tonight and she cancelled at the last minute!

So I was pissed!

So I called this other babe (who is hotter) and she agreed to meet me at 8pm!

So one girl cancelled and I had another girl to call and she agreed to go out with me tonight!

Can't wait!

Oh but if I took these guys advice above I'd be sitting at home waiting for her to call for 7 days.

ahahahhaha. can I ask why you told the original poster to wait for her to call? Chances are if she's very attractive then she's not going to. When you meet a girl you don't give her your number, you ask for hers and then you call her because you asked for her number, waiting for her to call would be suprisingly stupid, since she probably won't.

BINGO.

FRANCISCO where are you and what is your opinion on this?

 

[wayword]

Don't count your chickens until they hatch...

It ain't over 'till the fat lady puts out.

So she agreed to let you buy her some drinks tonight. Don't start gloating until you actually spitroast that old MILF.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Don't count your chickens until they hatch...

It ain't over 'till the fat lady puts out.

So she agreed to let you buy her some drinks tonight. Don't start gloating until you actually spitroast that old MILF.

Dont think she has kids.

And even if all that happens tonight is we have a nice meal and conversation and I at least get to kiss her, I'll be happy enough. But my place is a block away from the restaurant, and you think she wont come check it out? Nah.... goal is definetly get her into my place.

 

[HaremMasterThomas]

hell yeah man this is what makes my story so great!

I had a date with a hot babe tonight and she cancelled at the last minute!

So I was pissed!

So I called this other babe (who is hotter) and she agreed to meet me at 8pm!

So one girl cancelled and I had another girl to call and she agreed to go out with me tonight!

Can't wait!

Oh but if I took these guys advice above I'd be sitting at home waiting for her to call for 7 days.






BINGO.

FRANCISCO where are you and what is your opinion on this?

At least there is one smart guy on the So Suave site, approach as many hot babes as the can then you will have options a plenty, HAPPY SARGING.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

At least there is one smart guy on the So Suave site, approach as many hot babes as the can then you will have options a plenty, HAPPY SARGING.

I am proud of myself.

The girl that cancelled on me tonight is just some girl from a dating site i never met face to face so i dont care that she flaked. Its expected.

BUT this other woman I was walking out of Blockbuster, she was getting in her car and I just said "HELLO what's you name?" We exchanged a few words, exchanged phone numbers.

Had lunch the next day,

It was so damn simple an now I will hopefully see her tonight.

I am going to start talking to every cute girl I see from now on.


ITS SO DAMN SIMPLE!


"HELLO, WHAT'S YOUR NAME? I'M _______" BLAH BLAH Write down your number"


Thats all you need to know.

 

[bigjohnson]

Two bulls were walking in a pasture, a father and son. As they wandered down the hill a herd of cows came into view. The son cried out in excitement "Dad, let's run down there and screw a cow!" to which the father replied "No son, we're gonna walk down there and screw 'em all".