she will only let me kiss her

[DJ4Life]

thanks for clicking this thread fellow djs, and to conserve all of your precious time i will make this as short and simple as i can:

i met Daniella a few months ago. shes 17 and im her age. I am her 4th bf but i am her first kiss, and we got to second base a week ago. And from her feedback and body reaction i can tell she loved it and she wanted it.

then recently she told me that she wants to stop continuing second base, and just go back to kissing. its been troubling her for a while now and there are two reasons.

One is that she isnt completely ready for it yet. She admits that she loved and enjoyed the feeling up, fingering and oral sex, but she has never done these with guy before just a month ago, and she isnt too comfortable doing these yet

Second reason is that she feels guilty lying to her mom, who disapproves of her dating completely. and going to second base with a guy behind her mom's back is too much for her conscience to bear.

she was begging me not to be angry with her and dont break up with her. and i love the girl a lot, so im not gonna dump her just because of this either. but of course being a guy, i also love the making out and kissing just wont do it for me

so what do i do to get it back?

 

[Obsidian]

whoa, fingering and oral are part of second base? I didn't realize. I never learned the baseball terminology...

 

[Scorched]

I knew a few guys who couldn't get their girls to go all the way. So sooner or later when I got my chance, the girl gave it up... But they were never virgins... Most recently I ****ed this girl with out ever taking her out on a date. She said "you should invite me over sometime"... So I basically started making out with her in front of all her friends. 24 hours later she was in my bed butt ass naked. Then I didn't want her anymore... So my friend started dating her. It took him 6 months to get her in his bed...... 6 months...

You can't really change your game up too much man...

This girl is a virgin...
Her mom has told her over and over not to have sex yet and why...
Her mom doesn't want her daughter being wasted goods quite yet.
Think about it... Would you want to marry a girl who isn't a virgin?
I doubt I would...
There is one girl I can see my self getting that serious with and she is a virgin...
So... yeah... if I were you I would wait a while to pop her cherry.

Keep in mind women are more horny during certain days in their cycle...
I made this as a joke, but it might be useful to you.
http://womenaredogs.ytmnd.com
In theory you have better chances around the 17th day...

You don't have to finger her to get her to give it up...
Find a location she feels safe in...
Like in her room while you can hear her mother on the phone...
Barley touch her... Then start rubbing her thights and back.. Act like you are going to kiss her then turn away... Finally give her small kisses... Make her want to kiss you... Etc...
Then just stop... She'll be like what the hell...
She'll come onto you next time you guys are alone.

Just don't seem like you are trying so hard.
Don't talk about sex around her.
Make it feel natural and special.
If she brings up the fingering stuff again...
Do not say you are sorry. (I don't know if you did)
Just sit there and say ... yeah... okay... huh... yeah...
2 things I wish I had done when I was your age...
Let her call you MOST of the time. No 50 50 crap... Keep the conversations short and funny.
Flirt with other women in public in front of her. It will drive her insane... If she says anythign about it. Just giggle and act like it wasn't a big deal. Keep that stand and win the argument.

I could give advice all day. haha