Hey, first time poster, long time reader.
Met a girl at my old job, she came onto me pretty hard. I got her number, got a date, and had an AWESOME time makin' out and foolin' around (first date). Then she goes cold, I go AFC. I find this site, improve myself and bump into her later. C&F her, I'm more confident around her, we go out a few more times. We get along really well and it looks like things are going good. She's giving me signs, calling me to hang out. Then one day she asks me how I would feel if she got engaged (trick question I thought) and then gets on the phone with her ex bf (she keeps in touch with her ex's, red flag?) and says that shes sorry but I should leave and that she'd explain later. We get together the next day and she tells me that it was an ex of hers that she sees off and on and he said hes thinking of proposing, and that they have gotten back together a week and a half ago (during this time she was supposedly back with him we have fooed around). That I also shouldn't feel bad cuz it wasn't just some new guy that came into her life. I play it cool and tell her that since she's seeing this guy now, I'll move on. She says that I shouldn't give up on her, cuz it might not work out and that me and her have become really close and she doesn't want to lose me. Later that night we are watchin movies and she asks me if I still talk to my ex and got kinda jealous when I told her that shes been callin me lately. Her bf calls her, she goes outside but I stick around to see where shes goin with this. She comes back and starts gettin close to me, tellin me I can come over anytime I want. (she doesn't have sex, religious). Then takes her bra off underneath her shirt and asks me to rub her back, I refuse to. She asks a couple more times, no I said. she falls asleep and I leave. she calls my cell two times, at least wtihin two minutes of each call and insists she dialed the wrong number. This happens a couple more times. I see her a week later at church and she comes up to me to talk, I give her the cold shoulder cuz I am mad that she felt like she could keep me around as a second choice. She wants to hang out later, but then chagnes her mind at the end of the night saying she feels sick to her stomach and that she would call later.
Whats the verdict?
Met a girl at my old job, she came onto me pretty hard. I got her number, got a date, and had an AWESOME time makin' out and foolin' around (first date). Then she goes cold, I go AFC. I find this site, improve myself and bump into her later. C&F her, I'm more confident around her, we go out a few more times. We get along really well and it looks like things are going good. She's giving me signs, calling me to hang out. Then one day she asks me how I would feel if she got engaged (trick question I thought) and then gets on the phone with her ex bf (she keeps in touch with her ex's, red flag?) and says that shes sorry but I should leave and that she'd explain later. We get together the next day and she tells me that it was an ex of hers that she sees off and on and he said hes thinking of proposing, and that they have gotten back together a week and a half ago (during this time she was supposedly back with him we have fooed around). That I also shouldn't feel bad cuz it wasn't just some new guy that came into her life. I play it cool and tell her that since she's seeing this guy now, I'll move on. She says that I shouldn't give up on her, cuz it might not work out and that me and her have become really close and she doesn't want to lose me. Later that night we are watchin movies and she asks me if I still talk to my ex and got kinda jealous when I told her that shes been callin me lately. Her bf calls her, she goes outside but I stick around to see where shes goin with this. She comes back and starts gettin close to me, tellin me I can come over anytime I want. (she doesn't have sex, religious). Then takes her bra off underneath her shirt and asks me to rub her back, I refuse to. She asks a couple more times, no I said. she falls asleep and I leave. she calls my cell two times, at least wtihin two minutes of each call and insists she dialed the wrong number. This happens a couple more times. I see her a week later at church and she comes up to me to talk, I give her the cold shoulder cuz I am mad that she felt like she could keep me around as a second choice. She wants to hang out later, but then chagnes her mind at the end of the night saying she feels sick to her stomach and that she would call later.
Whats the verdict?
