She seems to always want me to pick her up. Is this bad?

[Billtx49]

Can you elaborate more about that?
How would it raise her ASD if she's had sex with him already?

It might make her internally feel like a slvt knowing sex is going to happen if she drives to him instead of being properly date picked up…
The other side of the ASD coin is it keeps her self esteem elevated.

 

[RickTheToad]

Additional info, it's only been 2 months or so any she's texting me that she think she's falling in love with me and misses not sleeping with me and holding her tight. I just ignore and continue on with another topic. As I've told her before, I go by actions, not by words.

The lady is expecting me to pick her up again at 6pm. Her reasoning is that we're going towards her way anyway, so it makes no sense for her to drive to me just to pass by her anyway.

 

[RickTheToad]

It might make her internally feel like a slvt knowing sex is going to happen if she drives to him instead of being properly date picked up…
The other side of the ASD coin is it keeps her self esteem elevated.

She wouldn't kiss me on the second date, yet on the 3rd date she was naked and fooling around with me. Makes little sense what these ladies do.

 

[Billtx49]

She wouldn't kiss me on the second date, yet on the 3rd date she was naked and fooling around with me. Makes little sense what these ladies do.

Being extremely attracted and horny can overcome all other personal agendas. Applies to both sex’s…

 

[RickTheToad]

Being extremely attracted and horny can overcome all other personal agendas with both sex’s…

Perhaps. She constantly says she thinks my body is perfect and is nearly always grabbing my junk when were in bed, sleeping or sitting on the couch. Seems suspect, but my mind can be playing tricks on me. She looks like a young Paula Abdul with curls if that maters.

 

[Billtx49]

Perhaps. She constantly says she thinks my body is perfect and is nearly always grabbing my junk when were in bed, sleeping or sitting on the couch. Seems suspect, but my mind can be playing tricks on me. She looks like a young Paula Abdul with curls if that maters.

Don’t over think it and enjoy the ride. The only thing to be concerned about is screening for possible head cases and how she gets there doesn’t apply to that…

 

[djdfuser]

Tell her she gets herself about every other time. If she spits her dummy out and is less keen to bang, she's full of sh!t.

And always pull a screeching drift round the exits of the turnpike when it's your turn.

If she's still around in two weeks time, you have your answer.

 

[Soflobro#3]

On another note, she's actually told me that I was one of the fastest dudes she has had sex with. Normally, she waits months. She kept one dude waiting for six she claims. I said I would had moved on already. She was also hesitant to give blow-jobs, but now she's given me like a dozen or so. Still working on the swallowing aspect. Anal is next. She said she's afraid, I said we'd work through it.

Hard to read her sometimes.

Yeah, sure

 

[Fzatf]

I've done the driving for an ex and I never minded. It was in her mind something a boyfriend does and she had feminine tendencies. As long as she's not using you for rides to meet other people I don't see the problem.

 

[RickTheToad]

So I picked her up and she stayed the night. We had sex a few times, but I think we have a little problem. Maybe I am not long enough, though I thought I was, but doggy seems to be a problem where we cannot get the rhythm right. Also, I cannot seem to position side correctly as well. Cowgirl and missionary, she enjoys especially when I raise her butt in up. She likes it fast and hard in that position, but at the speed she likes it I cannot keep doing it for more than 30 seconds or my pelvic and lower back really starts to hurt. So far, she can only climax orally or with a finger, not with my penis as it takes a long time. After 2.5 hours, I gave up and climaxed.

Advice welcomed and encouraged. Concerned that the sex will become boring soon for us.

 

[Fzatf]

So I picked her up and she stayed the night. We had sex a few times, but I think we have a little problem. Maybe I am not long enough, though I thought I was, but doggy seems to be a problem where we cannot get the rhythm right. Also, I cannot seem to position side correctly as well. Cowgirl and missionary, she enjoys especially when I raise her butt in up. She likes it fast and hard in that position, but at the speed she likes it I cannot keep doing it for more than 30 seconds or my pelvic and lower back really starts to hurt. So far, she can only climax orally or with a finger, not with my penis as it takes a long time. After 2.5 hours, I gave up and climaxed.

Advice welcomed and encouraged. Concerned that the sex will become boring soon for us.

If she's not climaxing in 2.5 hours you may not be sexually compatible. Does she have a problem cumming solely by penetration with all guys or just you? If it's all guys just keep going with oral and fingers and get her off first. If that doesn't satisfy her enjoy yourself while it lasts and don't stress yourself out about it.

 

[RickTheToad]

If she's not climaxing in 2.5 hours you may not be sexually compatible. Does she have a problem cumming solely by penetration with all guys or just you? If it's all guys just keep going with oral and fingers and get her off first. If that doesn't satisfy her enjoy yourself while it lasts and don't stress yourself out about it.

She climaxes within 10 minutes via oral. She told me if I didn't make her climax orally first she'd climax through sex. Not sure. She was soaking wet all over my member and balls, so I know she's excited. She's getting more relaxed as we do it more and more. She relaxed enough yesterday to where I was able to stimulate her through her g-spot. Before she was so tensed up it was hard for her to relax. The first time I went down on her, she was very tense and didn't climax orally. The week later, was the first time she climaxed. Yesterday, she climaxed twice orally shaking and moaning and very wet after. So, I know I can get her to climax. She really likes to be pounded hard and fast, but I just cannot do it more than 30 - 45 seconds at a time. She's like yes yes yes, don't stop, it feels amazing.. Then I have to stop as it's really draining and tiring.

 

[MatureDJ]

A bit of a peculiar situation. This lady I am seeing seems to want me to pick her up a lot. Whether we go to an activity or even if she sleeps over, she rather have me pick her up. We live about 10 minutes away, but still, she has a car, I do not understand what the big deal is. She wanted to sleep over on Thursday, and I said cool. She was going to drive over and then said she's too tired to drive. I tried to get Lyft, but it wasn't working on my phone, but worked on hers; she booked it and then she cancelled it showing that it works. She then said she likes to be picked up and driven places, as that's what she's used to. Since I knew it was sex and I was kinda horny, I went to pick her up; which she seemed very pleased.

Is it me who thinks that this is a bit peculiar or is it normal when you see a lady once or twice a week and you live close to go and pick her up?

Are you getting sexed? Then it's worth it. Maybe she feels threatened and wants you to defend her. That's a good thing.

 

[MatureDJ]

It seems unreal. She's a conservative Republican. I've dated these types before, sex is usually better, but they seem to want everything done for them. I live in a heavily liberal Democratic area, and they are SJW's and are more in to meeting half way on picking up and paying for things. Perhaps that is why it seems so foreign to me.

I don't understand why men would want to do anal with a woman, other than perhaps she is not tight in her vajaya. I find the idea of placing my member in the poop chute - even that of a woman - quite disgusting.

 

[Fzatf]

She climaxes within 10 minutes via oral. She told me if I didn't make her climax orally first she'd climax through sex. Not sure. She was soaking wet all over my member and balls, so I know she's excited. She's getting more relaxed as we do it more and more. She relaxed enough yesterday to where I was able to stimulate her through her g-spot. Before she was so tensed up it was hard for her to relax. The first time I went down on her, she was very tense and didn't climax orally. The week later, was the first time she climaxed. Yesterday, she climaxed twice orally shaking and moaning and very wet after. So, I know I can get her to climax. She really likes to be pounded hard and fast, but I just cannot do it more than 30 - 45 seconds at a time. She's like yes yes yes, don't stop, it feels amazing.. Then I have to stop as it's really draining and tiring.

If orals working and she's very excited otherwise, you're fine. Give her bursts of the speed she likes just don't break yourself.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I don't understand why men would want to do anal with a woman, other than perhaps she is not tight in her vajaya. I find the idea of placing my member in the poop chute - even that of a woman - quite disgusting.

Its done to change things up. Also to establish presense in that territory.

 

[RickTheToad]

Are you getting sexed? Then it's worth it. Maybe she feels threatened and wants you to defend her. That's a good thing.

Yes, every time so far, at least twice or three times. I even gave her the option of taking her home or to my place, she selected my place.

I don't understand why men would want to do anal with a woman, other than perhaps she is not tight in her vajaya. I find the idea of placing my member in the poop chute - even that of a woman - quite disgusting.

She's pretty tight, but she has an amazing a-s-s. Half Puerto Rican, half Jewish. Lord have mercy on me...

If orals working and she's very excited otherwise, you're fine. Give her bursts of the speed she likes just don't break yourself.

Yes, that is why I keep doing it, but the oral part is becoming boring to me. I do know, if she isn't satisfied she'll leave. As others know here, this happened to me a few months ago, so I just do it. She likes the way I move my tongue now, so she gets really excited. She's doesn't seem to like my latex condoms, and she requested we use these crappy skyn condoms. Can barely feel anything. I bought the condoms that @R.U.G. suggested and they feel amazing, but she's afraid they will break. I do not think Jewish ladies believe in abortion either. So I am stuck with these crappy condoms. I wanted to use my crown ones, but she said they irritated her love sponge.

 

[RickTheToad]

Its done to change things up. Also to establish presense in that territory.

And dominance. Or as Alpha Male Strategies says, her soul.

 

[HankHill]

Sending her Lyft/Uber? lol sounds like a princess! I would never send Lyft/Uber...I'd rather go pick her up although I also don't see myself driving her back after sex, I'd be ready for a nap/sleep lol. But as long as you're getting what matters the most you do what you gotta do, it's a small price to pay.

 

[RickTheToad]

Sending her Lyft/Uber? lol sounds like a princess! I would never send Lyft/Uber...I'd rather go pick her up although I also don't see myself driving her back after sex, I'd be ready for a nap/sleep lol. But as long as you're getting what matters the most you do what you gotta do, it's a small price to pay.

Yea, I wasn't paying for an Uber. I do think she's a bit entitled, but I take it as it comes and adjust where necessary. I didn't take her right home, I dropped her off in the morning. I've heard from many ladies that men would send them ubers and cars from the City and other parts of the area. Some even drove them back and forth from New York City. She's 7 miles away, so it's not that big of a deal. I am just not willing to make it all the time. Though, I have a feeling this will be an issue down the road.