She says her dad wont let her date...

[COCACOLA777]

Hi guys whats up, ive been coming to this website for a while now but I have a specific question that I cant find an answer to. Ok, Ive been going out with this girl for 7 months. We have gone on dates before, but a while ago there was a little controversy about her parents and my parents thiniking we were having sex. So then she tells me her dad wont let her date for a year. When she first told me about that, she didnt mind sneaking around without him knowing which was fine for me. The thing is, our parents are good friends and there is no sneaking around without getting caught. So now she tells me we can only see eachother at school and talk on the phone. The thing I dont understand is, she goes out all the time with her group of friends in her neighborhood and sometimes guys hand out and try to flirt with her and she tells me about it. I really love her but I have been considering ending things because I wanna see her and it drives me crazy not being able to and we fight about it all the time. Im so lost i dont know what to do please help. Oh ya, im pretty sure she feels the same we about me as i do about her. At least, I hope. She seems to. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME DIRECTION IM LOST.

 

[COCACOLA777]

your right I am a newbie I dont know what the hell im doing, so help me!

 

[COCACOLA777]

I know i need to next her, but its just hard. This girl is gorgeous. Since the school year started about 8 or 9 guys have tried to get with her and she turns em down because shes with me. Thats what makes it so hard. I dont have the will-power. We have a free period where we get to see eachother everyday at school. I dont think I have the balls to break it off with her.

 

[NewMan]

How old are you?

Can't you go out in a group?

 

[G_S]

The direction you should go in is....






























NEXT!!!

 

[G_S]

Here's your problem kid, you have no balls. You let some little girl walk on you in the name of "love." Have some respect for yourself; be a man for Christ's sake. She doesn't want to be the one to break it up, so she treats you like dog ****, lies to you, and makes excuses to be apart. She's lost interest and it's only a matter of time before she NEXTs you.

In every relationship there's a sniper and a victim, which one would you rather be?

So keep waiting around, clutching to her leg, begging her to take you back. You'll only repulse her more and drive her further away. You're no longer a challenge for her, and your relationship is dead. Get out before she tires enough of you to drop the axe once and for all.

You must think I'm being harsh, but everyone here sees this same situation time and time again. Break up with her and be sure to say, "I'M breaking up with you" NOT "I think we should break up."

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

i wrote u a damn good two paragraph statement but this is a weak sodtware program that says im login then says i am not logged in - lost data and wasted my time!!!!!!!!! she is making herself available to other guys - initiate the break up and b a man!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

did u talk to her dad? that **** is an excuse and u r being played - her dad wont let her hang out with u the boy he knows but lets her hang out with dozens of other boys and girls? HUH? dont b a phone boyfriend - shows weakness - b a man and break it off and see her reaction - she'll probably say "oh' ok" - dont b a chump

 

[Gold Heart]

You seem to be young. Like highschool age. Trust me on this, nothing lasts forever. You are way too young to be holding on to a girl because of "love."

Be a man. Only positive things surround you. Any negative things are quick to leave your life. Including this girl. Right now, you are feeling confusion on what to do. As a rule of thumb, if I have any doubts on the girl or get confused, ESPECIALLY later on during the relationship, it's over. At 7 months, you should NOT be confused about the relationship.

Grab your balls, tell her it's over. She slacked off. If she really wanted you, she would find time to be with you, REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION. I know it hurts to hear that, but accept it, let her go, and leave her behind because you are now looking onto better things.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

dont cry either or quiver your lips - actually i would start hitting (romantically speaking) on some other girls right away - so u wont b too devastated and look llike a lost puppy. Your wants and desires and lust is blinding u to reality!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

"your pretty sure she feels the same way about u" means you dont know how she feels! listen to yourself!

"at least i hope" - dude, listen to yourself. u sound desperate as if u never meet another "pretty" girl - trust me at 17 they r pretty at 25 she is still good(if she is lucky) at 30 she is ok if she didnt have any children and gain 60 pounds as most americans do at 40 she is done! Beauty is fleeting! close your eyes and imagine she was ugly - would u now let her diss u - hell no - whether she is pretty or ugly the same situation applies - u r being dissed but somehoe it is ok to look like a fool if she is pretty - HUH? She is letting u go gradually so u dont take so hard and get adjusted to her not bein around.

 

[COCACOLA777]

Thanks for the posts guys. I definitely dont mind constructive criticism at all either, I NEED IT. I think im gonna grow some balls and break it off. Im callin her at 3:30. Ill let you guys know how it goes.

 

[Austin Allegro]

She says her dad won't let her date.

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

Tell her to read 'Romeo and Juliet'....