Women confuse lust and infatuation with love.
She might actually love you. If she does, that’s nice, but from what you write on here, I guess it’s not reciprocated.
Is this a “girlfriend” or someone you want to form a family with?
So far, I haven't seen any red flags. I am interested because by the 3rd date usually at least one pops up...
No-Nos
[ ] Tattoos. Female beauty is not to be tainted.
[ ] Clingy and insecure. If you don't feel like you deserve my love, you should love yourself first.
[ ] Has children. Not interested in baggage and/or raising someone else's children.
[ ] Drug and/or alcohol abuser. Escapism with substances will only make you more miserable the next morning.
[ ] Negative. By focusing on what you don't want, you will attract that object. The positive feedback loop yields an undesirable life.
[ ] Deceptive. This trait, in a female, in a relationship, is rooted in insecurity, resistance and low self-esteem.
[ ] Irresponsible. Throws caution to the wind with disregard to the consequences, concern of others (particularly her partner) and the future. Ties with impulsivity and lack of foresight.
Not a single one of these yet. In every single date she has one drink and only drinks water after, even when i offer her another drink. Thats a big plus for me.
Her apartment is in a high-rise and well-ordered. She has a positive attitude and is catholic, etc.
The only idiosyncracy is that "I don't do this often" comment but it's not a red flag for me.
