She offers to make your THREESOME fantasy come true...but doesn't want to be involved

[STR8UP]

How strange is that?

We were talking about each others sexual fantasies, and she asks what I would think if she were to find two girls for me as a birthday present. She said she personally wouldn't be into it but if she found a couple of friends she could trust she wouldn't mind hooking me up.

At first I thought she was either joking or setting me up with a loaded question, but she was dead serious. I told her I wouldn't be a man if I turned something like that down, lol.

Due to logistical issues I doubt it would ever happen, but it's a nice gesture!

Looking back I had a couple of other girlfriends propose the idea in the past (but with her included) and I choked thinking the same thing I initially thought in this situation (she was only looking for my reaction). I fukked up.

Fellas, women KNOW what our answer to that question would be, and if you say you wouldn't want it she's gonna know you are lying. You might as well give her an enthusiastic "thumbs up". Hell, enough times being asked and you are BOUND to get hooked up eventually.

I'm gonna keep reminding her.....you NEVER know.

 

[marqZAL]

I really think she was only looking for your reaction. Unless it somehow effected her, like she has this bi fantasy...then shes just fvcking with you!!!!!

 

[Click Here]

hey i got a 3some its not like super amazing. i was wasted and at this cheerleaders house a year or 2 ago her ps were upstairs and her and 2 friends were downstairs. I got in a fight with my gf over some guy she was talking to so i went to this cheerleaders house and one thing led to another somehow i managed 1 girl to take her shirt off full tit exposure then the 2 other girls i made them touch eachother then i got involved and i was getting head while making out with one girl and another naked girl watched us. on paper it sounds sweet but i dunno. the girls were all 7 range maybe thats the problem? long story short i busted in the hot ones mouth never had to kiss the other one and left.

maybe its cause i felt like **** for cheating.

 

[seulaxplaya]

thats so a test. and i u said ok. You just failed.

 

[BobbDobbs]

If she is LTR or LTR material, that was a test.

You do threesomes with ONS's or people known to be kinky. Since she doesn't want to be involved, she herself isn't a swinger.

You have a bit of an out, since it sounds like she brought it up rather than you -- which would surely have been the kiss of death to an LTR.

 

[Kwah]

Hell send her friends my way man. I like this girl.

 

[Walden]

Whaddaya mean if she's LTR material, she offred to hook him up with 2 chicks.


OF COURSE she's LTR material!!!!

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

Most questions like this are usually loaded questions.


Most of the time females will ask you this and then go on to ask, well would you have a threesome with another guy and me?

High school girls and college girls, most aren't LTR, and most of the time college kids are drunk, so it wouldn't be a surprise.

BUt if you're out in the real world, unless she's a swinger, it's unlikely this question isn't a loaded question.


However, maybe she was being legit and wants to be in a LTR with you, and wants to fulfill your fantasy.

However, remember, if you are in a LTR relationship with this girl, and she does fulfill this fantasy of yours, don't be surprised in the future if she wants one of her fantasies fulfilled. Involving other guys, yourself and her or something in that regard.

ANd if you refuse, don't be surprised if she gets mad.


I mean, if you are in a LTR, it goes both ways. She fulfilled your fantasy, now it's your turn to fulfill hers. If you don't believe this, then why get in a LTR to begin with. ANd why get in a LTR with a girl who obviously is a bit on the kinky or wild side if you can't handle the repercussions.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Don't do it if you want serious LTR. If it aint serious go for it.

If she were willing to take part, I'd look for a pro to be 3rd party, easier in the long run.

 

[intel200]

My girl said she considered getting a stripper to do a 3sum w/ us for my b-day. IMHO, if you are gonna get married and have kids, DEFINITELY get a 3sum b4 the wedding if you want one ever. IF she aint willing, DONT MARRY HER!

 

[STR8UP]

Believe me, my first instinct told me to avoid the question altogether for fear she was only looking to see what I would say to formulate an opinion. I thought I was walking into a trap.

But after awhile I realized she was 100% dead serious. At that point my "remember the time when you coulda woulda shoulda" kick-myself-in-the-ass mechanism kicked in and I realized that if I was a genuine opportunity I had better not fukk it up by avoiding the question or pretending like I was a nuetered gay monk.

 

[marqZAL]

You did the right thing if she was showing some seriousness about it. A 3some with 2 hot girls.....who would pass it up????!! Althought, she was just most likely fvcking with you!!! hey, you jumped on the bomb, you just might get what you ask for!!!

 

[Player_Supreme]

I say don't do it...unless your ready for the repercussions that WILL follow. Ho's get jealous man...they may be down for it initially but they are territorial as doggs....Plus the other girls could get into each other and leave you out...I've been offered this type of thing many times and only did it once...my ho got jealous...ruined the whole thing when I started kissing the other ho the way I kissed her...