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She Never Mentioned The BF, EXPLAIN

Disco

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Last night I was hanging out with a group of friends and a girl I met one time before was there. Smoke to me, about a 7 on the Playboy scale I rate by. So in the past I've heard my friends talk about how this girl is hardcore and how she's very rude to guys when they hit on her. Cool chick right? Anyway after a brief reintroduction I go inside, bam she comes in after. I say "hello again hername" and then blow by. Again this girl knows she's good looking so I did this. I then watched her destroy two friends that had horrible bragging style approaches.

The group is outside talking and she starts telling me again how bad she has to pee. Then someone makes the suggestion that she pee outside. She adds I once peed in a Wal-Mart parking lot, it could be on video. I look at her and say "at least you hope not" as we are all going to our cars to go out. As I'm getting into my car she says to her friend "i hope not..i think he was making fun of me." Money.

So when we get to the bar she finds me. A friend and I are talking about our careers and goals and all that catch up crap and she trys to but in. I acknowledge her then go back to my conversation. Finally I decide to work on her. I could tell that she, despite what my friends think, isn't all to good with the game, could be the reason she's so hardcore to guys. We talk, then she starts touching me. Not like the buddy punches she was giving my friends. I find out a plethora of info from her. I use tons of sarcasm and at one point she's laughing so hard her friend says "what's wrong" and she points to me saying "he's killing me." The funny thing is I was making fun of her most of the time. She then asks me to sit down beside her later. She grabs my thigh, then pulls a camera out of her bag and leans into my face and takes a picture.

Well the party boat stops here when a young cousin of her friends was ready to go home, it was 2 a.m. She hugs me and I say into her ear "i'm going to get your number from ZXXXX(our mutual friend) so we can hang out sometime." She looks surprised and said "alright, but I'm going to have to tell you I have a boyfriend." I reply "so". She then looked shocked and hugged me again saying "get my number and give me a call."

I was very pissed with my friends for not telling me about her bf problem. They all say it won't be hard since I'm really the first person to step up. Since she has a bf I won't, repeat, won't spend any money on her and will call her next Saturday before I go out to see if she wants to meet up. My question is this:

WHERE IN THE **** WAS THE BOYFRIEND IN ALL THE TALK WE HAD. Also, he's about 4 inches shorter than her (I'm 6'2 and shes like 5'11) and HE LIVES 5 HOURS AWAY.
 

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I hate when they don't mention.

Often a chick will keep some guy around so as not to be 'single' , while she's hoping some other guy will come and sweep her off her feet.

"So?" was totally the right response.

You may want to consider how ethical it is to blag this girl if she's hooked up , or like me , you may simply not give a sh*t. If she's just waiting him out then she'll leave him for someone , may as well be you :)
 

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That's the same way I see it, exactly the way I see it. ONe of my friends called that saw me working on her last night and said "she's dated that other guy way to long." We'll see a little challenge never hurt anyone.
 

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She's got baggage. If she leaves homeboy for you, she'll do the same to you in time. Why deal with the drama?

Any guy who tries to steal my girl from me, I'd stab a pencil into his ear and tickle his brain. But that's just me.

Good luck with your situation.
 

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i agree with fade. Why the **** do you want a girl for a relationship that you took from some other guy? This chick obviously lacks integrity.
Have your way with this one, maybe a fvck close the next time you two hang out, but dont go for anything serious.

plenty of chicks out there, get a baggage free one.
 
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She's got baggage. If she leaves homeboy for you, she'll do the same to you in time. Why deal with the drama?
I disagree completely. If her bf lives five hours away and he's four inches shorter than her, she'll probably drop him for a better model. Imagine how he must be paranoid about his HB7 girlfriend living so far away. I'd put money on him being one heck of an AFC because of that, and because she'd have to bend down to even hug him. Getting her will be piss easy. Keeping her will be too.
 

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Originally posted by The Great Obnarticus
I disagree completely. If her bf lives five hours away and he's four inches shorter than her, she'll probably drop him for a better model. Imagine how he must be paranoid about his HB7 girlfriend living so far away. I'd put money on him being one heck of an AFC because of that, and because she'd have to bend down to even hug him. Getting her will be piss easy. Keeping her will be too.
At least try for the 'tang. What's the WORST that could happen? Her BF tries to kick your ass? :D
 
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