she never had a boyfriend

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ok i just met this girl she is 18 and she is the typical nice girl never ever have had a boyfriend. she is the shy, but hot girl i got her phonenumber and we are goin to the movies on thursday .

HOw should i treat this girl that she never had a boyfriend and i know for a fact that is true my best friend knows her family and is true and her sister is nice like that too but i like her better.

so whats up
 

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I am seeing a girl similar to yours.

18, Nice as can be, hot and a virgin.

Since this girl is not a Bia and has not been burnt by a guy yet...I would suggest you treat her with the best intentions.

Take it slow...because she is going to
If you are not willing to work for a LTR with her, it proly won't work.

a girl like this may quickly give her heart to you so be kind.
 

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Oh...another thing

C+F still works wonders, you might have to tone it down a bit at times though

Tease her, call her out on her mistakes..but in a humorous way

Play hard to get... Go out with her to the movies, have a great time but don't hang all over her and don't treat her like a queen. After your date, don't kiss her, tell her you had a good time...DON'T offer another date yet, she may offer one to you...if she does not, tell her you will give her a call sometime...let a few days pass...this will drive her CRAZY she may even call you. When you do call her she will be so into you...you will have her by a string if you play it right from here on out.
 

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Wait.

She is hot and she never had a boyfriend. In these cases, the chick usually has some psychological issues. Maybe sexually abused as a child.

It's not uncommon for shy guys at that age to have never had a girlfriend because the shyness stops steps from approaching. However, hot women, ugly women, shy women, all get hit on more than the average guy so even if woman is shy or ugly she still has lots of opportunities to have a boyfriend.

Trend slowly my friend.
 

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May 2003, over 200 posts....my friend, I joined in February, you have two years over me, what kind of question are you asking? No seriously, before I answer this, I want you to re read what you asked, and seriously, seriously, tell me you dont know the answer?
 

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Ease up with C&F, unless she gets used to it and likes it; avoid sexual jokes. Make the kino indirect as in random touches at certain points, that dont necessarily have sexual value. just get her comfortable.
 

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Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
Wait.

She is hot and she never had a boyfriend. In these cases, the chick usually has some psychological issues. Maybe sexually abused as a child.

It's not uncommon for shy guys at that age to have never had a girlfriend because the shyness stops steps from approaching. However, hot women, ugly women, shy women, all get hit on more than the average guy so even if woman is shy or ugly she still has lots of opportunities to have a boyfriend.

Trend slowly my friend.
Umm, slow down bucko. Plenty of cute girls have never had real BFs and are virgins. Especially at 18, that's still young. And she may be smart and have strong will and not care for serious relationships at that age, which means she's probably SANE.
 

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Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
Wait.

She is hot and she never had a boyfriend. In these cases, the chick usually has some psychological issues. Maybe sexually abused as a child.

It's not uncommon for shy guys at that age to have never had a girlfriend because the shyness stops steps from approaching. However, hot women, ugly women, shy women, all get hit on more than the average guy so even if woman is shy or ugly she still has lots of opportunities to have a boyfriend.

Trend slowly my friend.
Agreed with the previous poster. This is a load of rubbish. :rolleyes:
 

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hahaha.. yeah i didn't expect that abuse thing.. i suppose it makes sense. but i wouldn't assume it off the bat.

i remember my first date ever was something like what you have here. awkward as ****. we never talked after that date. lmao. she was ****in' HOT though.

*frusturated*
 

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
May 2003, over 200 posts....my friend, I joined in February, you have two years over me, what kind of question are you asking? No seriously, before I answer this, I want you to re read what you asked, and seriously, seriously, tell me you dont know the answer?
what are you talking about just because i been here longer than you dosent mean i cant learn nothing from anybody like you.

First i never been in this kind of situation since i was like 13 or 14. This chick is really smart, shy and hot. Im not afraid of loosing her who cares, but i just want to know if anybody is in the same situation
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by ezilonman
Oh...another thing

C+F still works wonders, you might have to tone it down a bit at times though

Tease her, call her out on her mistakes..but in a humorous way

Play hard to get... Go out with her to the movies, have a great time but don't hang all over her and don't treat her like a queen. After your date, don't kiss her, tell her you had a good time...DON'T offer another date yet, she may offer one to you...if she does not, tell her you will give her a call sometime...let a few days pass...this will drive her CRAZY she may even call you. When you do call her she will be so into you...you will have her by a string if you play it right from here on out.
Good **** thanks for the input
 

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Originally posted by snintel
Ease up with C&F, unless she gets used to it and likes it; avoid sexual jokes. Make the kino indirect as in random touches at certain points, that dont necessarily have sexual value. just get her comfortable.
Yeah thats my plan make her comfortable get to know her and make it hard for her to know me the rest is game over.
Maybe once i get know her i discover she is lesbo lol nah i dont think so but if she is that will be great.
 

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yeah my advice on this is not to be afraid if she turns you down when you go to advance on her.she may not be used to guys advancing on her so therefore she may be a little afraid.we must take in other scenarios,and put ourselves in others positions.
 

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what happens if its a 24 yr old guy and never had a gf before then whats with his issues then

Originally posted by ezilonman
I am seeing a girl similar to yours.

18, Nice as can be, hot and a virgin.

Since this girl is not a Bia and has not been burnt by a guy yet...I would suggest you treat her with the best intentions.

Take it slow...because she is going to
If you are not willing to work for a LTR with her, it proly won't work.

a girl like this may quickly give her heart to you so be kind.
 
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