She likes someone else

[Blaster]

I'm into this chic, but she's into someone else. I think she sort of has an idea that I like her (not 100% confirmed).

what to do?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

NEXT her because you obiviously didn't work your game enough for her to see you in a intimiate way. Stop your ONE-ITIS and go talk to tons of girls.



PIMP

 

[becker]

I feel bad for you, I hate it when that happens. There's not a lot you can do about it either. Just move on and use the girl as social proof.

 

[Bungo Pony]

Obviously, you have no fvcking clue what the situation is. Ask her for her number, call her, and ask her out (for examples, read the DJ bible). If she gives you any answer except "Yes", she's not interested. The only way to answer any of your questions is to grab your balls, approach her, and work on getting a date. It doesn't matter if she know you like her or not, it matters that you make the first move.

Now, GO GET THAT PIECE OF ASS!!

 

[Juan_Man]

Before you follow Bungo's advice I suggest that you try talking to her first and gauge her interest level. If she treats you in the same wishy-washy way that you treat unattractive girls, then move on.

 

[Walden]

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Listen to Pimp

Listen to GigaloDJ.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Blaster
I'm into this chic, but she's into someone else. I think she sort of has an idea that I like her (not 100% confirmed).

what to do?

With the wealth of information you've provided on this situation, I see you having two choices:

1) Take her

2) Find someone else.



Really, when you say she has an idea that you like her, how does she act toward you? Is she MORE friendly because of this or LESS friendly? Does she talk to you more or is she more distant?

BTW, how did she "get this idea" that you like her?

 

[assasin]

Originally posted by Juan_Man
Before you follow Bungo's advice I suggest that you try talking to her first and gauge her interest level. If she treats you in the same wishy-washy way that you treat unattractive girls, then move on.

Why would this be any better than taking Bungo's advice and asking her out? Because he wouldn't have to hear "No" if she wasn't interested?

If he doesn't ask her the simple yes or no question "Do you want to go out sometime" he will never get to hear "yes" He'd just wind up bumbling about in his current state of limbo while some other guy got there first.

Don't fear rejection, embrace the power it gives you to ground yourself in reality.

 

[Blaster]

Re: Re: She likes someone else

Originally posted by squirrels
With the wealth of information you've provided on this situation, I see you having two choices:

1) Take her

2) Find someone else.



Really, when you say she has an idea that you like her, how does she act toward you? Is she MORE friendly because of this or LESS friendly? Does she talk to you more or is she more distant?

Thing is, she's really friendly towards me. Get lots of eye contact. Smiles a lot. And even tries to carry the convo. on sometime. Dunno if it's cause she sorta likes me, or cause she knows I like her, and wants to play games

BTW, how did she "get this idea" that you like her?

A friend told her (a guy friend)

 

[squirrels]

Re: Re: Re: She likes someone else

Originally posted by Blaster
Thing is, she's really friendly towards me. Get lots of eye contact. Smiles a lot. And even tries to carry the convo. on sometime. Dunno if it's cause she sorta likes me, or cause she knows I like her, and wants to play games


A friend told her (a guy friend)

1) Tell your friends to keep their big mouths shut.

2) Instead of making a move yourself and finding out if she really DOES like you, you're asking a bunch of people on an internet message board. Sorry, we've never met her, so we can't answer your "does she like me" question.

Take the advice of some of the above posters and DO SOMETHING. Just read some of the DJ Bible stuff first, so you don't end up going up to her and saying, "I love you!" or something.

 

[cazzie]

Originally posted by Walden
Listen to GigaloDJ.

Listen to Walden

 

[seulaxplaya]

used to like her

considering she may think u like her. show her that you dont. example by doing this. go out with other girls talk about other people. if she likes you will be able to tell how she reacts to you by telling her all this. if she asks questions about the person you are talking about thats a good sign shes interested. if she doesnt then oh well.