She likes it RAW

[HellHathNoFury]

I've been seeing this chic for just over 8 months. When we first started having sex she always insisted on using a condom up until recent.

A couple weeks ago she was kinda drunk and she just lined it up and pulled me in. Then for the next few times she insisted on using a condom again.

I figured that the next time we go raw again would be when she has been drinking. I guess I was wrong. We did it this morning pulling out of course.

Does, anyone have a clue as to any reasons why a chic who was so anti-unprotected sex would suddenly change her mind?

 

[future dj]

she wants you to get her pregnant so you have to pay her child support?

 

[rocky_mtn]

no one has a clue why women do anything, and neither do they, but here's a couple of ideas

1. On a women's cycle there are times when she can have unprotected sex without fear of getting pregnant

2. she might subconsciously want to get knocked up, or at least be a little risky and take chances when shes drunk.



Use a condom everytime unless she's on the pill and you trust her to take it every day. Condoms are much cheaper than diapers.

 

[KontrollerX]

She might be in the mood for having a baby as she just wants one and any man will do or she might be in the mood to have a baby to trap you.

Some chicks when they really start to get into a guy start to worry that he is getting bored of them and will leave them soon then they get the stupid idea in their head that if they get pregnant that guy will marry them and they'll live happily ever after.

This con often works on AFC's and either ends horribly in divorce sometime down the line or the two of them live miserably ever after until one day when the guy is old and broken down he realizes finally that he was tricked and his life is ruined but there's no way out of it now other than suicide so he grits his teeth, stays with her and just deals with it the best he can.

So basically to test your girl and see what her intentions are ask her what her views on abortion are. Another way to ask this is to say "What would you do if you got pregnant?" If she hesitates in any way dump her unless of course you want to have a baby with her. If she answers abortion immediately you have a winner on your hands and she just wants to go bareback because it feels better to her.

 

[rsxtreme]

she wants you to get her pregnant so you have to pay her child support?

:yes:

 

[Jariel]

Women like to know that they are pleasing their man just as much as we want to please women. It's partially an ego thing, but we also know how important it is to satisfy our partners to keep them interested. Plus it's a huge turn on to hear your partner having a good time!

Of course, the pregancy theory is possible as there are some underhanded women who would do that (after 8months I'm sure you have a good idea whether you can trust her though), but it may just be that she wants to satisfy you and realises that unprotected sex is far more enjoyable for you. It is also a lot more personal and intimate too.

Just be aware that even though you pull out, you can still transfer sperm and the pill is not 100% effective.

 

[HellHathNoFury]

Thanks for the good responses guys. She told me she was getting ready to start her period, (like really close, bloated already) so maybe it is that time when she can go raw. But that didn't seem to matter the other week when she was wasted.

Now everytime I was going to *** I would tell her and she wouldn't say anything. She wouldn't stop, jump up, or anything. So I don't know. I pretty sure she is really into me and does want to satisfy me. But did anyone think that it could possibly have to do with a certain degree of trust?

 

[Socialreject]

Pulling out is a horrible anti conception "technique"....

You do know she can get knocked up even if you don't blow your load inside her right??

Use a rubber or end up cleaning up the **** of your new born son/daughter ;-)

 

[Freddy1]

oops duplicate post

 

[Freddy1]

Always use a comdom. Period!
Its not worth catching STD or getting her pregnant.
I know a few guys who got burn pretty badly by getting a girlfriend pregnant. Once they have kids their attitude changes like if they were a different person.
Some women are manipulative and wants you to get her pregnant (in her mind she think you will be stuck with her after that. Dont buy into it.)

Dont trust women with birth control pills.

Be smart about it.