Viper423
Senior Don Juan
Ok, for those of you who have followed my first thread, I really need help more then ever cause a wrench has been tossed in the engine now. Ok, I have already set in my mind that I will move on and put this girl in the back seat and start living my life for myself and bettering myself for myself. I told myself I will not talk to her unless she speaks to me first, and even then, I will be very brief.
Well, she showed up to class today and sat down in front of me and said hi. I just said hi back but didn't look at her. Next thing I know she says," You're mad at me aren't you? Are you mad at me?" I cooly tell her no, I'm fine, I'm not mad. Cause I don't want her to know how she upset me. Well, she moves closer and she keeps pushing the issue. She keeps saying," I know your mad, so lets just talk. Tell me why your mad, I want to fix things." Well, I just calmly and cooly again told her I'm fine, I'm not mad.
She didn't believe me, so she goes up to my friend who saw her and that other guy together buying a Christmas tree and she asks him if he told me that he saw them together. He told her yeah and then she comes back over to me and asks me if I'm mad at what he told me. I said no, I'm fine, don't worry about it. Then she tells me," You can ask me anything you want, there is nothing going on between me and "John." I know this girl better then any of you and I can tell you that she is telling the truth. But I still just barely talked to her and told her I'm fine.
Then she goes back to her seat kind of upset and says,"Well, I'm just trying to fix things between us so when you're ready you talk to me." I didn't respond. When class was over I left quickly, and my friend caught up with me after and said that she had come up to him after I left and she said that I was mad at her and that she has never lied to me. Well, I go only 1 day of my plan of not talking to her unless she talks to me first and keeping it brief, and she has already called me.
When I got done working out today I had a missed call on my phone from her. I haven't called her back. Now, I am so confused I don't know what to do. For once she is the one calling and I'm the one who doesn't answer leaving her worrying. Now, I have already got my DJ attitude back. I wouldn't mind getting back with her, but I don't want to turn AFC again like I did. If she calls me again should I answer, cause this girl won't give up until we sit down and talk? And should I call her back or wait for her to call? Here's what I was thinking of telling her if we talk," I'm not doing this just friends bullsh*t. I realized that I don't need you, even though it would be nice to have you. So it's up to you, but I'm not going to be just your friend." Or should I just avoid her and not talk to her at all anymore?
Well, she showed up to class today and sat down in front of me and said hi. I just said hi back but didn't look at her. Next thing I know she says," You're mad at me aren't you? Are you mad at me?" I cooly tell her no, I'm fine, I'm not mad. Cause I don't want her to know how she upset me. Well, she moves closer and she keeps pushing the issue. She keeps saying," I know your mad, so lets just talk. Tell me why your mad, I want to fix things." Well, I just calmly and cooly again told her I'm fine, I'm not mad.
She didn't believe me, so she goes up to my friend who saw her and that other guy together buying a Christmas tree and she asks him if he told me that he saw them together. He told her yeah and then she comes back over to me and asks me if I'm mad at what he told me. I said no, I'm fine, don't worry about it. Then she tells me," You can ask me anything you want, there is nothing going on between me and "John." I know this girl better then any of you and I can tell you that she is telling the truth. But I still just barely talked to her and told her I'm fine.
Then she goes back to her seat kind of upset and says,"Well, I'm just trying to fix things between us so when you're ready you talk to me." I didn't respond. When class was over I left quickly, and my friend caught up with me after and said that she had come up to him after I left and she said that I was mad at her and that she has never lied to me. Well, I go only 1 day of my plan of not talking to her unless she talks to me first and keeping it brief, and she has already called me.
When I got done working out today I had a missed call on my phone from her. I haven't called her back. Now, I am so confused I don't know what to do. For once she is the one calling and I'm the one who doesn't answer leaving her worrying. Now, I have already got my DJ attitude back. I wouldn't mind getting back with her, but I don't want to turn AFC again like I did. If she calls me again should I answer, cause this girl won't give up until we sit down and talk? And should I call her back or wait for her to call? Here's what I was thinking of telling her if we talk," I'm not doing this just friends bullsh*t. I realized that I don't need you, even though it would be nice to have you. So it's up to you, but I'm not going to be just your friend." Or should I just avoid her and not talk to her at all anymore?
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