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Mitza

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P.S - My english is not perfect, please understand me.

I've meet a beautiful girl, she can have any man that she wants, and she know that.I've meet her, and with my knowledage I've seduced her.I played hard to get at first, and that thing worked for me, untill one moment.We were at a party, and I don't wanted to stay all night near her, because I've considered if I do that I'll be considered needy, so I started to talk with my frineds, and I saw some girls, and ofcourse talked with them.She saw me and replyed ...she was talking with some boys, the were attracted by her from the first second, and she began to dance with them, to make me gelos, and show me that she has more power than me.

What should I do in this case ? I can't make her gelous, because she can make me imediatly and more easely, because every man wants her.So I can't do nothing to improve the attraction.

As I've said at first I played hard to get, beeing confident, dominant, funny, playfull, and after some time I've kissed her, but before I teased her.Ok .. I love the way she kiss, and she have an earring in her tongue, more pleasure.Untill that I don't wanted to kiss her, or I said to her .. to wait untill later.But after I've kissed her I wanted more ... and now the surprise .. when I want more she don't want.I think this is a game of her ... what I can do ?
 

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it's a test, nothing more, nothing less

pass it by ignoring her and play with another girl nearly as hot as her
 

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Mitza said:
I can't make her gelous, because she can make me imediatly and more easely, because every man wants her.So I can't do nothing to improve the attraction.
Why not? Couldn't you do the same thing she did and dance with other girls to make her jealous?

Thing is, I can tell just by reading this that you were mesmerized by her looks and she is the Prize to you...and I'm sure she could too. Maybe 0utwardly you tried faking some PUA tactics, but inwardly it's very clear you were supplicating to her and getting sucked into her more dominant frame. You were not in control of the interaction, she was. It was HER WORLD, and you were just visiting it and reacting to all her moves.
 

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Well, you've played some games and chicks love to play games - they are experts at it.

At some point you have to cut to the chase and just make a definitive move. You've kissed her, so there's interest on both sides. After that, you have to escalate (get a one on one date, escalate physically). Playing lots more games after kissing her will spiral out of control and go nowhere.

If the situation IS just going to be when you show interest she backs off, and when you back off she shows interest - that is a game you don't want to waste your time with. For chicks, it's fun (they get male attention and experience control) - for guys, it's just frustrating.

Guys need to understand the difference between being a challenge (builds attraction) and acting not interested (generally self defeating). A lot go overboard and pretend they are not interested - there's a big difference between that and showing interest but NOT SUPPLICATING.

She knows you like her, so pretending not to be interested isn't going to work.
 

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I've meet a beautiful girl, she can have any man that she wants, and she know that

So what, any good looking girl can have just about any man she wants, this girl is nothing special. Right?


She saw me and replyed ...she was talking with some boys, the were attracted by her from the first second, and she began to dance with them, to make me gelos, and show me that she has more power than me.


Instead of taking this personally, or being bothered by it, you should have chuckled and taken it as a compliment. If a girl behaves this way, it's because she is trying to get 'your' attention, she could care less about the guys she danced with. Think about it.


What should I do in this case ? I can't make her gelous, because she can make me imediatly and more easely, because every man wants her.So I can't do nothing to improve the attraction.


I wouldn’t have even looked at her direction. I would of known that the show was all for me. Get it?

As I've said at first I played hard to get, beeing confident, dominant, funny, playfull, and after some time I've kissed her, but before I teased her

Perfect, keep this up. It worked because if it didn't, she wouldn't have tried to make you jealous.

But after I've kissed her I wanted more ... and now the surprise .. when I want more she don't want.I think this is a game of her ... what I can do ?

If you know that wanting her more will push her away (or ACTING like you do), then you need to do the opposite. Go back to being confident, dominant, funny, etc.
 
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