She is interested. What do I do ?

Outkast

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So, I started college in may, and there is this girl I found very atractive in one of my classes. During the first couple of months we never spoked, not even a single word.
But one day (like 1 month ago) I wasn't even thinking about her, but the oportunity came up and we started talking. Very good vibe. We were flirting, I was teasing her, making jokes about her. We were having fun.
That same day, she gave me her e-mail address.

From that day, we always talk, we always have fun, we always flirt. I can tell that she is interested, but she won't make any moves, since she is kinda shy.
We see each other twise a week, since we only share one class. And we have never gone out.

So, I'm the man. I have to make a move. The problem is that I am a 20 years old virgin and I don't have any idea of what I'm suposed to do in a situation like this.

So what do I do now?, should I ask her out? how?.

Thanks.
 

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Outkast said:
The problem is that I am a 20 years old virgin and I don't have any idea of what I'm suposed to do in a situation like this.

So what do I do now?, should I ask her out? how?.
OK, first it dont make no difference that you're a virgin.
Second read the bible.
Third, if you're maybe in the friend zone already, start getting more sexual with her. Not grab her tit, but be more horny:)

And for the asking her out- Just say- what are you doing this evening?tomorrow?... whenever you'd like to go out.
And now for the most important part: Grab your balls (figuratively speaking) and TELL her, not ask: Let's go get a dring together sometime, that evening...
 

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Well, tell her "I'm going out with some friends,
and I'd be fun. You can come along if you want."

Don't worry about being a virgin. The secret is to
always take it to the next step.

1. Touch her hair.
2. Smell her hair.
3. Kiss her neck. Kiss on lips.
4. Kiss her tits....

Take it to the next step. And don't forget
foreplay is important. Especially if she's a
virgin.

Have fun. Sex is fun.
 

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what do I do now?

This is from Craig's List, and written by a woman; I don't buy into every word that she writes, but much of it is valuable for the sake of seeing a female perspective.

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sfo/72823945.html

Talk to them about something they are passionate about (the one guy that I ever loved started talking to me about the poetry). Don’t try too hard. Don’t feed the dog when they’re on vacation, but ask how their trip was. Maintain dignity. Be a little mysterious and a have limits. It’s sexy.

After ... a while, casually ask her somewhere. If she comes up with something like “I don’t date” act surprised and offended that she thinks it was a date. Make it awkward without you looking like the conceited one or blowing it out of proportion (subtlety is key!). Let her think that THAT was her idea, not yours. Trust me, she is painfully adverse to leading men on. More than likely, she has been accused of it since puberty and it hits a nerve. Maintain bits and pieces of conversation. Then, and honestly I mean this, she will ask you to do something. Do it, even if you have to miss your sister’s wedding, because otherwise she’ll feel rejected. And [the hottest] girls don’t deal with rejection because, frankly, they don’t have to.

Keeping her.
Maintain your dignity. Don’t become too vulnerable too fast. You want to be different from the many that have been love-sick over her before. Only time before each milestone will make her felt like she earned it will allow her to think this is genuine. In her mind, time translates to her feeling like you love HER not what she represents. Play your cards close to your chest. This is a good time to tell your best friend how into her you are – just don’t tell her. Remain calm and mature, maybe slightly detached. Do not go all crazy on her no matter how in love you are.
 

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ey im also in college right now. I remember those freshamn years lol. Belive it or not i was kinda of mad i wasnt a virgin when i got here cuz chicks love virgin freshamns for some reason, dont ask me why lol. But if you guys hanging out like that, it simple donot ask her out because she prob a freshamn too im guessing and they dont want to get tied down really. she is all bout taking chances right now. so be slick with it. Just be like hey we should hand out sometime and catch a movie (the movie thing always works), do not take her to movie theather. Watch a movie with her in your room with your roomate being present. And everything else will take care of itself. dont think to hard. Just make her sit on your bed and watch movies with her and play around with her and then if she gets real close and touchy go fo the kill. I wouldnt tell her i was a virgin if i was you cuz some girls see that as attractive and some girls see it as a terrible thing. So if i was you i would just play along like i know what i was doing. If you end up "getting it on" lol dont make the mistakes most virgins do. After you nut the first time, get another rubber and get back into it in a lil bit...kiss her all over her body till you can get it up again. its real easy..dont worry about it too much...im telling you all this cuz it sound like u want to get with her like that. If you have more noble reasons and u think she is worth it, just hang out with her outside of yall class and let nature take its course
 

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I meant to say watch a movie without your roomate being present
 
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