I’m a 27 years old charming guy; I dress well, success with woman, lots of charm.
I’m attending University classes at night and recently I’ve meet this blonde at my class, which is a unique beauty. I start to flirt with her, and I’ve got positive response. We started to exchange written letters in the classes, I was very romantic in this writings, told her she look some different film actress almost every day (she dress very well also), we also talked about simple things, live… I was not whiny or something, I’ve maintained the status, some distance, some mystery; well, I think I have done things right.
In the University bar she spent her time looking at me from a distance, when she was with her colleagues.
I was interested and she was too obviously.
But there was one thing, when we talked: I got the impression she was hiding something, we rarely talked about our personal lives.
So yesterday I sent her the bomb; I ask her why did she told me once that “she came to this University because she have to”. Then she wrote that her boyfriend works in this city…
So she has a boyfriend.
Now I’m in a dilemma, she has interest in me, but she also has a relationship, which seems solid, with no apparent possibility of ending. I would not be surprised if she is marrying soon, from some talks I’ve heard from “the air”.
Should I continue to invest energies with this fantastic girl? Should I keep the same romantic writings? Should I get away instead? Today I’m going to be with her. Is there something you advice me to tell her?
Thanks
Jorge
I’m attending University classes at night and recently I’ve meet this blonde at my class, which is a unique beauty. I start to flirt with her, and I’ve got positive response. We started to exchange written letters in the classes, I was very romantic in this writings, told her she look some different film actress almost every day (she dress very well also), we also talked about simple things, live… I was not whiny or something, I’ve maintained the status, some distance, some mystery; well, I think I have done things right.
In the University bar she spent her time looking at me from a distance, when she was with her colleagues.
I was interested and she was too obviously.
But there was one thing, when we talked: I got the impression she was hiding something, we rarely talked about our personal lives.
So yesterday I sent her the bomb; I ask her why did she told me once that “she came to this University because she have to”. Then she wrote that her boyfriend works in this city…
So she has a boyfriend.
Now I’m in a dilemma, she has interest in me, but she also has a relationship, which seems solid, with no apparent possibility of ending. I would not be surprised if she is marrying soon, from some talks I’ve heard from “the air”.
Should I continue to invest energies with this fantastic girl? Should I keep the same romantic writings? Should I get away instead? Today I’m going to be with her. Is there something you advice me to tell her?
Thanks
Jorge
